I don't know if this is helpful but I cannot force my fantasies into men or women either. Sometimes nothing happens when I fantasize about men and...
Was your attraction to men always basically zero? When my relationship with my BF didn't go well I wasn't attracted to him or men in general but I...
I'd talk with your girlfriend before breaking up! Perhaps you can work it out together. If you're bisexual it's possible if your girlfriend is the...
@JustAskin I meant their mother... Our first love object is our mother.
There is another reason why it's more common for women. Not only men but also women have a woman as their first love object. Info in my own words...
Thank you Chip for your interesting post. I just wanted to add that my LGBT therapist is good at it's job. And still does self-work. :)
Turn off!
It can be both I think. I'm sure I'm bisexual. I'am attracted to men but only to feminine men. Thinking of sex with masculine men disgusts me and...
Over 18, like 35? I kept doubting. Psychotherapy helped. Now I'm sure of what I thought. :)
I agree with Chip: talk about it in therapy. It helps a lot. Things become clearer after a while. I'm in therapy because I'm depressed but it...
Story of my life, although I do think Harry Styles is handsome. I'm not into masculine men so sometimes I see nothing but question marks in front...
As a bisexual who kind of got stuck in a loop too at some point, please see a therapist. It doesn't even matter if you have OCD or not, talking to...
When do you know you are a bisexual polyamorous person? When you almost cry your eyes out while you are watching Professor Marston and the Wonder...
My boyfriend has an intersex condition. In his case cause unknown. He gets shots with testosterone to keep his testosterone level about the same...
I'm sorry but that's nonsense. True love = not loving your boyfriend anymore? Your friend has issues herself... She's in a bad relationship and...
I actually disagree. I think life would be better without the labels, if we stopped using labels for sexual orientation, they were recently...
No, if done right, not necessarily. It depends on your sexual orientation, that's under the anxiety/OCD. I've been in therapy for depression for...
I don't hide it but I don't mention it either unless my bisexuality becomes relevant in the conversation. I think it gradually becomes clear...
I also had a negative EMDR experience and I have to admit I also thought it didn't work. But recently I read a text from a therapist and...
With time and therapy (although my bisexuality wasn't and isn't the main issue). Therapy gives me more insight in myself.
