The "nuclear family" is a relatively new thing in the evolution of our species. For most of our history, children were raised by their...
I didn't realise I was gay until I was 50, 7 years ago, and I have no regrets. I am mostly sexually attracted to younger guys, and fully realise...
I liked kissing hetero, but never had any desire to go any further than that. Whereas when I kiss a man, I can hardly wait to get into his pants.
68.3% First time I have taken a gaydar test.
I still have these feelings. I didn't realise that I am gay until I was 50 (details in my earlier posts), which was less that 2 years ago. Because...
I think it comes down to personal preferences, as with (perhaps all) other aspects of sexual intimacy.
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Thanks for the clarification greatwhale. I think I mostly see what you mean, except for the part about joy versus pleasure. I do feel deeply...
Not at all. I just didn't understand what you were getting at. I am not trying to be disagreeable, but I don't understand what you mean here...
I see. Yes, absolutely. However I don't think my craving to sleep with younger men is at all unhealthy. So basically you're suggesting a...
Indeed. What I meant was that we don't 'need' to be alive, in that the world would survive just fine without any one of us. In that sense, life...
Perhaps what you really want is exactly what you're doing? I believe actions speak louder than words. Yes I crave more again and again, but...
If "the thrill is gone," then haven't I 'evolved' out of it? While on the other hand, becoming more and more difficult to 'evolve' out of, implies...
Primarily, yes, although I felt we were perhaps not compatible for a variety of reasons, and I wouldn't be surprised if he felt the same. Yes I...
Me too. I had my moment when I was 50, and am very glad that it happened. Please be careful about wishing for what you haven't had, because you...
I'm in my early fifties, and it's been almost a year since becoming sexually active after realising I'm gay. I finally 'came out' to parents and...
I'm 51, and didn't question whether I was gay until 8 months ago. It took me a couple of months to realize, and accept that I'm gay. Now, I am...
I was in exactly the same situation, so I fully understand. What I did was search the internet for gay bars in my area, then went to visit some....
I don't believe I'm having sex to "reaffirm" or "validate" anything about me. I assume you are talking about reaffirming and validating things to...
Have you considered first of all "coming out" to people you didn't previously know? I realised and said to myself that I'm gay, only a few months...
