You should google “Husbands Out To Wives” and join the list serve. You can talk to hundreds of men in your situation.
Hi Nick, Why have you regretted coming out to the local gay group? Just curious. I was also in a heterosexual marriage and came out during it. I...
Ditto to what everyone else just said! Get out! And being outed might suck but isn’t the worst thing that could happen
I am writing this to see if anyone else who has come out to themselves as gay at an older age has had a similar issue. I am 33 and came out to...
Hi Mr Peach, I hope you are doing well. Any updates?
I came out as gay to myself last year and I am now separated from my wife and about to get a divorce. I highly recommend seeing an LGBT therapist,...
I’m not sure if you are near Boston, but if you are a great resource is Fenway Health, which is a full service medical and behavioral support...
SiennaFire, thanks for that link. That is quite an amazing blog post and it helped me to read it. You are like the 20th person who has told me...
I think you are spot-on, Chip. My therapist has mentioned the concept of bargaining a few times. He actually said today that I’ve been doing a...
Hi all, I’d appreciate any feedback from anyone who is going through or went through a similar situation. I separated from my wife in May when I...
Hi Mr. Peach, Your story is so close to mine. I came out to my wife as bi about one year ago and as gay at the end of May. We are now separated,...
Duck1983, everything you said makes sense. I agree that you should not be doing this because of your feelings about one guy. You might want to get...
I am a 33 year old guy and just separated from my wife of 18 months after realizing I was gay. We don't have kids but were planning on it, and I...
mnguy: I don't think your original question is strange at all. I think about this all the time, but I am also still struggling with figuring out...
Hi everybody. I'm 33 and have been married to an amazing woman for about a year and a half. On our one-year anniversary last August I had a...
I'm in my 30s and at my one-year wedding anniversary (to an amazing woman) had a devastating realization that I had been checking out guys and had...
I live with physical anxiety on a daily basis to the point that I don't feel like I am living a normal life anymore. At the age of 33, I am...
PCM, Your advice is really interesting. I am curious as to what happened after the erotic massage experience? Have you had the desire to have...
I deeply appreciate everyone's comments, especially the one about not smoking weed! Lol I guess what is driving me crazy about my whole situation...
Hi Sienna Fire, I really appreciate your comments. I apologize for the remark you thought was offensive. I was trying to show my state of mind...
