I'm wondering, how it feels to be "truly homosexual" when compared to just having a very narrowly targeted fetish or a fantasy. Are you able to...
I find that sometimes a written letter works wonders. I have an experience with my elder brother. I felt he has always considered me a wimp and...
The only thing that "successful" conversion therapy can achieve is to force someone to start pretending they are asexual and aromantic. To force...
My ideal intimate evening would be cuddling with an intelligent, slightly authoritative but friendly elder professor or doctor, formally dressed,...
To give it another point-of-view, look at it from your dad's perspective. From your story it seems, your entire family knows but your dad...
I'm attracted exclusively to specific type of men only and feel strong repulsion to intimate relations with any other types of men. So, most of...
Sexuality is not about your conscious thoughts and aesthetic evaluations; it's about that feeling "down there", and the feeling most often comes...
I can relate to it very much. I myself am a man who is intellectually, emotionally and romantically attracted to women. I've had relationships...
Sometimes our emotional desires, romantic desires, intellectual desires and sexual desires might not match, and what's worse - sometimes one or a...
Yes, but mostly because of my introversion, "existential thinking" and having vision defects since birth. In childhood and teen years, I actually...
I can relate to that at some level. I'm also almost 40. I consider myself biromantic graysexual, but actually I had never had sex before. The...
Yeah, I guess it's about luck (or "higher powers") for those two to meet in this large crowd of 7 billion+ people, and how much time it would take...
Does the boy know about your current sexual doubts? It might sound paradoxical, but if you reveal that to him and talk about it, you might find...
I'm 37 male and I'm still unsure about my sexuality. I'm an introvert person and I can develop deep emotional attachments for both genders, but...
Quantumreality, yes, you are so right - that explains, why I have attraction only to "teacher-kind" of men. Also, I have noticed that the...
Yes, I have considered to leave my sexuality alone for some time and instead focus on the real issues - inferiority complex, egocentrism. I have...
Yes, I have heard that it is a controversial topic and I definitely agree that all these factors do not relate to every homosexual or transgender...
Quoting one article: "Defensive detachment emotionally isolates him from other males and from his own masculinity. Females are familiar. Males...
Ok, after some more investigation I found some clues. When I look at a man, the first question in my (mostly subconscious) mind is "Would I want...
Essentially you have come to the right conclusion. Don't torture your subconscious with those "being gay" tests because if it becomes a habit,...
