I am sort of going through the same thing. I came out when I was 55 after 20 years of marriage. My mother was very upset with me - "I can't...
Thanks - I did (and have a counselor) discuss with my counselor today. I think I just need to process it myself, grieve the loss, and move on....
Me - was married (final divorce in progress this week) - came out 2 years ago when i was 55 - told a few family members including my Mom and my...
I've been out to my family and wife for 2 years now. I'm ready to move on and expressed as such to my wife. I went ahead and filed for Divorce....
I came out to my wife 16 months ago. It was hard after 20 years of marriage. But she needed to know. She had to know. Both of our hearts are...
I applaud you to make the move now and not wait like i did. I finally came out to my wife at 55 years old after 20 years of marriage. We are...
Well it did get a little weird now with my Mom (and also my Aunt). Mom stopped talking to me. My Aunt basically said that I was an abomination...
I think this makes it a lot more real. and a lot more honesty in my life!
Up to now - just came out to my wife, best friend, his wife, and my brother. This week - I came out to my Mom (not a big deal to me), my uncle,...
Forgot to answer the original question but I don't think there's a way to do it other than just say it. It will be painful. it's up to you...
I came out as Gay to my wife 3 months ago. Very gut wrenching. One time she agreed to a divorce - next day, she changed her mind. I'm trying...
Great Story! Congratulations!
Yes I agree - just don't want someone else to tell her.....
And came out to my best friend's wife tonight. She's so happy for me. (which was a foreign response to me). Right now, everybody thinks that...
Did it - it went fine - he still loves me and i'm still his brother. yada yada... no biggie. He thinks I need to really think long and hard...
I came out to my wife a couple of months ago. (I posted on this on another topic). At this time, I'm out to my wife, best friend, and boss. So...
I came out to my boss at 55 years old (been in the closet for a good 40 years). And she showed no surprise or change in expression. It was like...
It was hard at first but got easier when the emotions and words just flowed out of me. I answered all of her questions as honestly as possible....
Well it's bee a couple of weeks. My wife and I had a bit of a fight last night... She still wants me to stay in the closet and I want to be out....
I think I knew since I was 15. Finally accepted it to myself at 48 and came out to Wife at 55.
