This is something I find myself pondering now, only a year into my internal process and just starting with the medical process, which will take a...
This has been a huge pain in my life and as of now I have no solution but I can relate. I'm currently single and plan to remain that way for a...
My mum is pretty cool, even if the first question she asked was "are you going to have some penis surgery now?" ... That shows how clueless even...
Haha, I do more often than not feel like I don't belong on this planet. It's getting easier though :)
I second what Darkcomesoon said. Gender can be hard to define but I've come to think that any pre-existing definitions, though comforting, should...
The stereotypes of what men are or aren't supposed to wear and how we should behave is what forced me to stay in the closet and suffer needlessly....
The legal stuff only really counts to me because of my girly name and people calling me "miss" etc which make me dysphoric. I'm assuming people...
I answered this thinking of my masculine and feminine traits and how and when they manifest themselves in relation to mood. My "default state" is...
Been there too with the breast cancer thoughts... and general lack of self worth. One thing that made things easier for me to process was the way...
SQUEE is the best word for it :D The male version is more like cute giggling but the female version can almost be like a scream. And it's so...
Guess it depends on the person and their health which positions are most draining/uncomfortable. Yeah, issues with one's own body can make their...
Ben's questions are good ones! I'd say the most important thing is what you want from your life. If you still want to transition and get...
Brave of you to come out after such a long time in denial! It's great that you can be yourself freely now :)
I can relate so much it hurts. As far back as I can remember I've known that I'm not like other girls and will never become a woman. Growing up,...
Taking a lot of distance sounds like just the right thing to do. Both need to work on a relationship, not just one. Leaving someone is not easy...
Word! Gay, bi, straight, anything - we should all be allowed to live for ourselves and not everyone else. It's not selfish, it's healthy. Took...
That's great, Natalie! :eusa_clap :newcolor: Such a relief when people are cool about it, isn't it? Just one person makes all the difference. One...
Hello Beth :) it's hard work but I believe it to be worth it... and I don't believe in many things.
I agree with crazydog. Turning the hatred inwards comes from the fear of judgement and pressure from the outside. I know it's kinda stupid for me...
I was bullied a lot by many different people in different schools for any and every excuse they could think of to torture me. I still hate them...
