You're definitely not alone. I'm basically in the same boat but it seems I have a different perspective than many. While I've known of my...
Exactly. She knows that if she says, "jump!", you will say, "how high?". Many of us here are in the same place so we know. We know! I'm sure...
Oh you poor dear. I went through something somewhat similar with J (long story) where things got ugly and ended similarly to what you're...
OMG, this could have been written by me. I can 100% relate to what you're going through and how you're feeling. I'm married with two young...
I just wanted to chime in and say that I'm sorry for what you're going through. I know you're hurting right now. You will hurt for some time....
Or...what if you told V about L and see what her reaction is?? Interesting thought. I'm rarely on this board but I was routing for you, Rjay....
Yeah, be careful with this. I understand how nice it feels to connect with the other yoga mom--especially now that you've "come out" to yourself....
Oh, hugs for you Cinnamon Bunny. You're definitely not alone here on this board. Many of us fell in love with either straight women or women who...
Hey thanks! Appreciate it :)
Hi there. I tried to send you a private message but it wouldn't let me. I can SO relate to your situation and would love to chat about it....
Hell yeah. You're not alone on this one. Miss my J every minute of every day. Still struggling to get passed the heartache and make sense of it...
Thanks for the responses and support guys. I will likely come out to my husband at some point when I feel I can handle all that will go with...
The other night when my husband came to bed, he woke me up (like usual) and asked me point blank, "Are you a closeted lesbian? Is that why you're...
Oh boy. Welcome to my world! I'm a married bi woman head over heels in love with a straight married woman. It's not a good scene. I'm...
I wish I had some words of wisdom for you but I don't. You're definitely not alone in your situation. I'm right there with you. Stuck in my...
Thanks for the input, ZiJ. No, I don't really think it's a matter of us outgrowing each other, boredom, change. Last time I saw her (June) we...
Just going to chime in and add my 2c. I agree with not labeling yourself right now. There is nothing wrong with taking time out from your...
You guys are awesome. Writing in this forum has been quite therapeutic! I realized after a few posts came in and I reread what I wrote...I was...
I saw a post earlier today about 'ghosting' and was unfamiliar with the term. That is what J did to me slowly and painfully all summer. We used...
No, not for me anyway. I'm in the midst of this very same issue. I love my J. In my heart she is my true love, not my friend. I am torn up...