It sounds like it's time for you to cut the ties: you're an adult and no longer a child and staying under their control isn't good for you. You're...
It sounds like he likes you. So at the very least you've got a new friend. Why not spend more time with him and do something together on the...
The ideal of being actively bisexual and having parallel relationships with both genders is really just an ideal. A dream. A fantasy. It's wrong...
Back when I was a kid, no one ever talked about anything to do with sex. Sex education was part of science in ninth grade. We kept mice in the...
Hi GeekCube, that's great news. You should be proud of yourself for handling it all so well. I can understand that the reaction of your mum wasn't...
Hi HappyGuy, it sounds like you're not worried or frightened at the idea you might be gay. You just don't know and don't know how to find out. Am...
I also went through the feelings of doom and dread. And valuing family life but also feeling only partially fulfilled sexually. It's not a nice...
I think you're doing the right thing by waiting for the right moment. you have every right to choose who you come out to and also when and how you...
Hi Minny, I've expressed my admiration for you as a parent before - and I'm still amazed at how hard you're working to be there for your son. I'm...
Hi Scorpio1024 You're mum obviously has some problems with accepting the reality of who you are. She probably needs more time to sort her own...
Hi Hereforadvice, I can imagine how confusing and difficult this all is for you. And it's a huge step you've made by coming on this forum and...
Hi Radboy, I agree with Imgay47 - try and just let things happen. And just because your friend has a crush on you it doesn't mean you have to...
Hi p123, forget gay porn or any kind of porn for now. It can be fun in some situations but it's not going to help you find out if you're gay or...
There's a lot of problems with taking the moral high ground on the cheating issue, I would even say it is unhelpful. The process of recognising...
Hi Geekcube, it sounds like you've been working hard to resolve the question of who you are. So congratulations on reaching this point where...
In the end, only you can know if it's a good idea or not. Would they be offended by the dance? If so, then maybe you shouldn't do it because...
With me, I blurted it out one day. My wife was very upset and confused and worried. And of course she was, because she didn't know what was going...
Hi there, blightedsight is right. Going to a group for LGBT people is probably the best thing you can do. It'll probably take a lot of courage at...
Hi Doughmaster Maybe you don't need to tell your mum that you're gay. As long as she doesn't catch you watching gay porn (which you shouldn't be...
Hi Lostkid, something you really need to know and really need to understand: A child doesn't like being sexually abused and a child cannot be...
