Does anybody either identify as gay now—or discover (or come to terms with the fact that) they were gay at some point in their life—based...
Thanks for the replies everyone. early40s I can relate to a lot of what you're saying, especially on the being stuck in the same place front....
Hi all, I'm 33, have been questioning, depressed, and stuck in the same place for a long time, and have been watching the walls close in on me,...
Weirdly enough, I'm also 32, also in Boston, and also dealing with much the same thing and have been for years. A main difference is I'm not...
Yeah OP: I am two years younger than you and I haven't done any of the experimentation stuff with other guys yet, but I identify very much with...
This sounds a lot like me. Do you have crushes on any guys (either previously in life or now)? What is your next move now? Is it anonymous-(ish)...
I do have one but am considering that maybe I might need to try someone else as well as I continue to go back and forth with this stuff.
So, as I’ve come to realize and acknowledge that I’m likely gay I’m not finding any relief or peace in any of it as it seems some people report. I...
Well, if it helps at all, I'm right there with you. I have come to hate the holidays and the "life benchmarker" they inevitably end up as. It's...
This is the main reason I feel that I'm gay. I like everything else on a woman, and have gotten turned on by other things, but I'm just not into...
I've never been a good sleeper my whole life and have tried most of the remedies, suggestions, and medications. My brain doesn't like to shut its...
Yeah I find this somewhat confusing as well. For some people, it seems to be heavily influenced by which genitals they prefer, and other people...
Lately I've been trying to gauge how much of an effect my questioning/denial/loneliness/inner turmoil has had on my ability to achieve...
For those that made use of therapy to help figure things out around their sexuality, was there a type of therapy or therapist that you found...
Yeah, this is me as well, getting worse as I get older. I come from a family where feelings were never discussed and affection was basically a...
I may be reading this wrong, but it sounds like for some people they experimented and than became attracted to men rather than the other way...
I think I get confused on what people mean by attraction, as I feel some define it differently. Would you describe "attraction" here as how you...
... Was there a consistent thought or set of thoughts/fantasies that, looking back, you recognized as being the main thing that kept you in denial...
If you don't mind me asking, what is all the evidence that you're completely gay if you say you're attracted to women and look at them all the...
I'm still heavily questioning and think I'm getting close to the realm of self-acknowledgment (but still not fully there). Self acceptance seems...