I have HOCD. I seem to be gayish and asexual-ish. HOCD is bad enough on its own. I can easily deal with guys who just straight up hit on me. I...
Can you give me some advice on how to be less numb about love and attraction? I want to feel those feelings for people, but I rarely do.
What I mean by romantic is believing in true love and Prince Charming. I feel like being gay has bursted that bubble pretty quick. Sure I’ve had...
I’m a cis female and it’s pretty obvious. I wear makeup and female clothes and do not identify as genderqueer. I am experimenting with short hair....
I’m in an annoying grey area. I'm not really sure if I like guys or not. Even if I do like guys I do know my attraction to them is below average....
I was at the airport with no makeup, a puffy face and glasses. A girl ended checking me out. I normally never get attention from girls. Only guys....
I just don’t know how to feel. I’m honestly pretty numb about it. I won’t say anything because I don’t want my mom to know I eavesdropped. I feel...
I have heard my mom complain about perfume smells in their room. I've also been noticing tension in their marriage for a while. A while ago I...
I don't consider myself any of them. I have periods of my life where I feel more introverted and times when I feel more extroverted. Lately I've...
Wrong thread?
I tried going label-free. I just notice I get pushed into the bisexual category and pressured to date guys. People don't like that I don't want to...
I'm dealing with some pretty bad internalized homophobia. But I also panic about not looking truly gay. It's just so confusing for me. One minute...
When I was seven years old I found out it was possible for two women to get married I thought it was so cool. I couldn't shut up about it. I...
I'm worried I'm not legit looking enough to other girls.
I actually do worry about not truly being gay. Sometimes I feel like I'm not attracted to girls enough. I also worry about being attracted to men....
I kind of do want to look more punk than gay. But I find I just look like a kinky bi girl instead.
I guess you're right. I'm just obsessed with not being legit in general. So I'm not so upset about not looking gay. I'm upset about not looking...
I have a pretty gay haircut, but my face and body type are feminine. So people see me as straight or maybe bi. I hate that my face makes people...
Most likely not, but I might be open to it if no guys are involved.
Does anyone else have anxiety about this? I sure do. The LGBT dating pool is small enough. But due to health issues I haven't graduated high...