You definitely look feminine to me, and very pretty. I'm jealous! Have you tried dressing and dolling up much for just you? That is, at home, by...
Hookup apps is what worked for me. I joined multiple hookup and dating apps. On the hookup apps I didn't limit myself to (nor reject out of hand)...
I can't help but think there's been a misunderstanding here. My understanding of IH is that its not a label. And certainly not a negative thing to...
Hi Laughsalot, My experience was that I found it near impossible to come out to my straight friends until I had made LGBT friends and given...
I'm obviously not Lesbian, but I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that like Gay and Bi men (and even Heterosexuals to an extent), everyone...
Hi Canadian, My approach is similar to what others have mentioned. Yes, at first it can feel like we will always need to constantly "come out",...
It sounds to me like you are in a lot of pain from trying to control things that are out of your control. The idea of "free falling" is scary as...
Hi Questions Abound! You are certainly not alone in your situation. Plenty of us have been through, or are going through, similar things....
I identify with that really well. For some reason before I came out to myself and others, I had internalised so much fear that I'd no longer be "...
For me, if I asked myself similar types of questions about problems I've had, my past nonacceptance of my sexuality would certainly be a...
First up, congratulations! As for feelings after coming out, for me it has differed with different people I have come out to. I was expecting a...
Yeah, don't worry about your age - I only came out fully this month, and I'm 39! And up till then, the *only* person who knew was my wife, and...
...when I woke up next to my man, and got goosebumps as he kissed me before he went out for the day
That's one of the best things about EC. I had exactly the same feeling when I started interacting on here, and it has been invaluable, giving me a...
The more I read AND interacted (I.e. posting) even if it was just to say something like "I've experienced that too" or "I agree" or whatever, on...
To be completely honest, until I started dealing with my internalised homophobia, and allowed myself to explore my feelings for men rather than...
That pretty much sums it up for me. Oh, and perhaps that I'm beginning to fall for a man for the first time ever. Ah, he's the sweetest guy,...
Yeah, that is hella annoying! but easily countered by simultaneous giving and receiving - giving is such a turn on for me that I can enjoy...
Hi Alli. There are I'm sure plenty of people here similar to you. Welcome to the site and I hope you find the support you need here. I'm sure you...
...that its probably time to get off EC for the morning, put down my phone, and get out of bed!
