That’s what I have said to people I have talked to. And I have used the words “fluid sexuality” too. Sometimes I am questioning my attraction to...
I guess so. My issue is that I want to come out to people, but I don’t know what I should come out as. So.. unless people want me to describe my...
I have been confused about my sexual orientation since forever and I feel like it’s so hard to figure it out. I feel like no label fits...
Thanks, both of you. I have reported it, and I am in therapy. I used to be in therapy back when I was questioning my sexual orientation a lot, but...
I used to spend a lot of time on these forums when I was trying to come to terms with my same sex attraction. I’m female, married to a man, love...
All of this is really complicated. I have read that a lot of straight women have the same kind of fantasies, so maybe it says nothing about your...
Someone said on another thread that it is common for lesbians to have fantasies about straight sex involving "rapey" scenarios and power imbalance...
Do you mean a platonic friendship or a romantic relationship? Opening up our marriage is not an option, because that would make my husband...
Thank you all for responding. I agree that worrying about the future and trying to anticipate every obstacle on the way is NOT a good idea. Before...
I don't think I will ever be completely sure about my sexual orientation, and I am trying to be ok with that. I also feel like my orientation has...
I definitely know that feeling! And thank you for the advice, it was very helpful I want to just let go of my concerns and stop worrying about...
Thank you so much. That was really helpful - and it sounds so simple in theory. I also worry a lot about things changing in the future, and I know...
It is so difficult. Any advice on how to do it?
Thank you! For me the question is, can I truly know my orientation if I never gone all the way with someone of my own gender? But then I think,...
I have thought about that a lot, and I would definitely explore my feelings if I was not in a relationship, but I don't want to cheat, and opening...
I am so sorry about your situation, these things are really difficult. I hope you reach the right decision soon and find the right path for you....
Thank you so much for the advice. I have already told him everything, and for now things are going very well. When I just focus on the present, I...
It has been a while since I posted anything here, but for the past year I have been accepting my same sex attraction and struggling with my label....
I think so.. but I am not even sure if I know what sexual atttaction is anymore. When he touches me, I naturally want to touch him, too, when we...
Did the straight relationship feel wrong or incomplete in any way? How could you tell something was missing? did you not want to have sex, was...
