In my humble opinion, all of these questions are part of the bargaining you are doing in your attempts to not be gay. Finding some possible way...
I think this post, and one earlier in the same vein, sheds light on this entire thread. If you re-read what you wrote here, and then consider...
I love this OTH! I wish I could see it.
@ales33456, I like what you have to say about your support of gay pride, and your kindness towards gay people in general. However, I think you...
Do you mean you're not sure what product to buy? I would suggest doing some internet browsing, perhaps on Amazon if you have an account, and look...
I have some anger and built-up resentment as well. I've managed to keep it in check so far, but I know it's still there. Some of my anger is...
I'm glad to see you're making progress, @lottaotter. If you're a reader, I would suggest getting into reading gay-themed fiction. I never...
It's entirely possible that you revealing the possibility of not being straight six years ago is what prompted her "change" in attitude. So, she...
I am a gay man who fathered two children in my marriage to a woman. How is this possible? For me, I can explain it this way: Although I was...
You are not alone in feeling this way. Most of us late-in-lifers have some similar feelings about being a fish out of water. But please...
It would seem like you already know your answer, but you keep going back and forth over this question of whether it's just a phase in your head or...
Some gay people have difficulty in identifying their sexuality, attempting to parse the amount of arousal they have for women vs. men in various...
Ideally, you would like to date someone who shares your interests. So, join groups, clubs, and organizations that fit your interests, and...
I think you answered your own question right here. If you can picture yourself caressing the genitals of a guy, and thinking about that arouses...
It's ok that you're not ready to come out or leave your marriage. This is a safe space for you to talk about how you are feeling, ask questions,...
I completely understand. One of the benefits of being Out to Everyone is that I no longer have to think about whether or not to reveal. I just...
Hi I am straight, Confronting, or even hinting at, your dad with your suspicions won't likely yield the result you are looking for. His...
All of our situations are quite unique, and so too is the uniqueness of our coming out. Before coming out, I was married to a woman with our two...
There are LGBT centers in La Crosse, Appleton, Milwaukee, Racine and Madison. There may be more, but that's what came up on a quick google search.
I don't think it's a great idea to "test" your gayness by attempting to hook up with another guy. It puts too much pressure on one interaction....
