Epiphany, I can very much relate to what you have shared. I also have been with my husband since 2001 and we have 5 young children and live in a...
It’s been a long time since I’ve been on here. I am sad. So sad that I’ve spent most of my life being inauthentic, and still am. I look at myself...
My marriage to a man is false as a result of living with the mask. Before my marriage I was predominantly with men but felt the freedom to be with...
I know I'm gay. But I'm so completely stuck in my heteronormative life. I know there are so many people here who have managed to break free and...
I understand too. I also haven't been on the forum in awhile. I know I'm gay (I haven't talked with my husband about it). I'm at a standstill....
Like never. And when I was younger I tried and tried. I enjoyed sex well enough, but never experienced the climax that people describe. Now I have...
All the best! I am happy for you. I know this is so so difficult. But after the pain will be the sweetness of the truth. Take good care of...
Hahahaha wmm, I love your response so much!! You sound like a great guy and I'm so glad that you and your wife have a great sex life :D! Thanks...
Thank you so much for all your replies. It is good to see the spectrum is out there. I think I am less sexually motivated than many people. One...
True question. I'm asking because I don't. At least not now. Not in my heterosexual relationship. Not ever, with a male partner. I have never...
You can be gay even if you're living in a heteronormative marriage. I might not have married a man if i had been more honest with myself 15 years...
I know what you mean about having expectations on how a wife is supposed to be with her husband. I've been married 14 years and now acknowledge to...
Your story sounds very much like mine too!! I am much older than you and am so glad that you are so much more self aware earlier on in your life...
I'm so sorry you're going through such a hard time. I completely understand the challenge of trying to weigh priorities and figure out a solution...
I think once I come out as gay to my immediate family (husband and young kids) i look forward to living out and proud. It is just these people in...
Thank you TinyOwl. Ya, it helps a little. But there is still so much longing. And I don't even know what I'm longing for. This is such a hard...
LGBTQ content has always been paramount in my music/video taste (should've been a red flag!), and i doubt you could find a straight artist in my...
Congratulations!! It is huge to be able to be open and honest with your partner and others close to you. I'm happy for you.
I know it's really hard. I'm also in a long term hetero marriage with children. It's so hard not being attracted to your spouse because of their...
Congratulations! That's huge :D
