I always knew (responding to above). By the way, this message board really has technical glitches ... logging me out if I type too long ......
To be honest, it's been a disappointment. I'm kind of a traditional guy and want to have a stable, monogamous relationship, but I don't want to...
I don't think there's a clear understanding of what causes homosexuality. I personally think it's to a greater or lesser extent an inborn...
You might find "Becoming Gay" by Richard Isay helpful. He was a gay psychiatrist who was married and then came out later in life.
This is a good post with some valuable advice. Having followed this thread for a while I would also add that, in my experience, it's not useful...
If I were you, I would think about the future and your choices in more specific terms. Do you want to leave your wife? How would you deal with...
You're definitely not too old to start living the life you want, although in my experience finding a partner in the gay-male community can be very...
My thoughts, for what they're worth. I think you're right that in general most wives would not want to remain married to a husband who comes out...
Have you ever watched strictly gay porn and have you ever fallen in love with a man? I think most people are bisexual and have different amounts...
I apologize for perhaps not knowing where you provided more details, but a question I have is whether you've acted out sexually on your curiosity...
If you're planning to go outside of your relationship for sex, I think you should tell your girlfriend so you're not cheating on her. Then deal...
It sounds like what you are going through regarding your boyfriend is pretty normal. You're still very new at the whole dating/romance game, so...
There's no standard timeline that everyone's supposed to follow. So the answer is no.
It sounds like you use other people, whether romantically or otherwise, to distract you from figuring out and accepting your sexuality. It seems...
I'm a late-in-lifer who fathered a child and I still feel guilt about having married her mother despite my attractions to men. In fact, I have...
Couldn't you just stay in the UK and separate from your wife so you can still see your kids?
It might help you decide by thinking in specifics about what you would like your life to look like (e.g., divorced, still married) if you were to...
But until you decide what you want, there really can't be much productive discussion, IMO. It sounds like you think that talking about it with...
Perhaps it would help if you were to decide what you want for yourself (e.g., an open marriage might be an option, or getting divorced another...
