Good post JMFKFL - I‘m personally not ‘out‘, but I feel I can relate to several of your points. I’m a similar age to you. I won’t go into long...
Thanks for the response. I don’t earn enough to move out any time soon unfortunately.
Everything. I don’t know why they are, I think their intentions are good, but it’s hard to feel like I’ve no freedom.
I work from home.
I’ve come to accept over the last few weeks/months that due to my controlling family I will never be able to come out. I will never be able to...
How can someone learn to cope that they’re never going to be able to come out? I’ve posted other threads about my circumstances, so I won’t go...
I’ve been very depressed for a long time, but yes, at the moment due to the situation I’ve lots of time to think. It’s certainly making me...
Thanks for your response. I think I messed up my chance with the guy your refer to, to be honest. I think part of the reason I feel so low is I’m...
Stuck inside due to the current situation, I’ve been thinking about things more than usual (and I spend a lot of time thinking!), and I’ve decided...
Thanks for all the responses. I just feel like I’ve been an idiot for believing he wanted something more. I guess I should be honoured that he...
I’ve posted on here on and off over the last few months. I’d been chatting to a couple of guys online, one who I messed up with through my lack...
It’s complicated, but unfortunately it’s the way it is. Realistically, I don’t see anyway to get away in the short to mid term, if ever. I don’t...
Thanks for your response JayTee. I get what you’re saying. What I find hard about it all though is it’s almost as though I have to accept I’m...
Thanks for all your responses. In some ways I feel closer to coming out and things changing, but in other ways I feel it’s further away than ever.
I’ve been very much reminded, three days after posing this, of why my situation is so difficult. There’s been lots of coverage of London Pride on...
Thanks for your responses. Unfortunately moving out would be difficult - I really wish i could, but financially it would be impossible. I just...
I posted on here a bit earlier in the year about my situation, and haven’t made much progress since. I’m in my mid twenties and still live at...
Circumstances I guess.
Thanks for your quick responses. I think the reasons I didn’t enjoy it were mostly anxiety, but also because of the lack of emotional connection....
I recently hooked up with someone and performed oral sex (unprotected) on them for probably just under a minute. I realised I just wasn’t enjoying...