Haven't been around too much in the last few weeks, there has been a lot going on. However, tomorrow morning I will officially be divorced....
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Yes. This. Exactly this.
I have a wonderful therapist. And while she doesn't specialize in LGBT she is completely open and supportive of me and my journey. Very slowly i...
Mine did, for a while. Many months of therapy, talking, him connecting with people on SSN, i think as much as it hurts he's finally realized that...
Thank you everyone. I really appreciate your insight and encouragement. One day at a time.
I'm angry, I guess that's the best way to explain what I'm feeling right now. I'm angry that I'm gay. I'm angry that I had to figure it out when I...
Cycling, overanalyzing, rethinking, worrying, wanting to turn around and run the other way...oh yeah. I'm weeks away from my divorce being final...
Welcome! I'm pretty new around here myself but just being able to read what people post and occasionally chime in has been great so far. My story...
Thank you everyone!
I am totally in that grieving stage. Grieving a Life that i had, a marriage, a future. But Like you said it's a Life that ultimately wouldn't make...
It was very freeing to finally say the words "I'm gay" out loud. And VERY scary. I was married. With a kid. I had known for a long time but was...
Did *I* always know? No But apparently most of my friends did lol. More often than not when i come out to people now i get dumbfounded looks...
:) Have you tried meeting anyone yet? At a bar or a website. I found that when i was first really coming out that just talking to people i met...
Having basically 'grown up' (since 21) at gay bars, mostly boy bars the idea of a meet up seems really foreign. I was out to most of my friends,...
Soon i hope. Almost a year after making the decision, and six months after moving out I am now having an even harder time then I was. Cycling a...
On my not so good days i say things like "I gave up everything so i could have sex with women". I had a great marriage to a great guy and a...
Should have prefaced that by saying that's a bit of where my thoughts are at these days
Hi. I'm new around here. Some of my story is in a couple other posts. Still technically married, but in the final stages of divorce. I moved out 6...
Um yeah. At least the trying to figure everything out part. I thought i was "out" to some of my friends for years. One used to call me her...
