@CatsAndDogs It seems to me that you have, pretty much, decided that you cannot remain in a mixed orientation marriage (MOM). It does appear...
Hey @Contented There's no way to know how things will work out. There are a lot of older/younger relationships in the gay world that seem to...
Hey @tommyj I came out to my wife as bisexual when I was 57 after being married for 33 years. It took me a few months to come out to her after...
@Nealg Sometimes it's easier to have decisions made for you than to initiate an action. But, consider how your wife would feel "catching you...
@Joolz66 I guess I asked this poorly. What are the aspects of your life that will blow up? Sometimes it helps to look at each part as a stand...
@Joolz66 I’m sure you have considered the ramifications of coming out to your wife. What are the biggest reasons for NOT coming out?
@Joolz66 Your wife is likely concerned. My wife was internalizing the problems in our marriage with me being secretive about my sexuality....
@Joolz66 This was my "coming out" thread to EC. Wow. Just noticed the date. 6 years ago yesterday....
I think that one of the most important things that @CameronBayArea and @Choirboy touched on was that the first thing many spouses will ask is "why...
It is very informative to read how so many of us have different experiences in recognizing our sexuality. For me it was an evolutionary process...
@CatsAndDogs You may find that as you are more comfortable being out that you will be looking not always for dating or intimacy but also really...
@CatsAndDogs Hey. Every place is a bit different. But, around here, the gay scene is accessed through the hookup apps. I know this is not...
Sometimes this is a result of the way we viewed ourselves and our sexuality. My generation I was taught that homosexuality was wrong and being...
It seems like you have some clarity about what you want and need. So, how do you go about achieving that? I’m not looking for an answer....
Ah. I guess I misunderstood when you said the answer is/was no. So. Where do you see yourself five years from now? My ski buddy and his...
“IS”??? Do you see yourself as bi?
@Laine7008 My wife is not gay, but she did lose her sex drive completely with menopause. She didn’t disclose this to me. But, I could tell...
I would like to comment about "platonic" relationships and marriage. As much as we might like to believe otherwise, many of us end up in platonic...
@Nealg I came out to my wife as bisexual about 5 years ago after 30 years together. I came out to her to STAY with her. I felt the dishonesty...
Hey @Roy Batty Welcome to EC. I came out to my wife as a bisexual with the help of this forum about 5 years ago. Everyone has a different...