This is great! You have the opportunity to stop holding your breath and take a next step!
Definitely! My wife doesn't want to be labeled as stupid or one of "those" women that should have known. That and she just wishes to keep up the...
I've got all three of those boxes checked. What are you specifically trying to deal with? What are you questioning?
One of the most powerful things I ever did was look in the mirror and tell myself "I am gay" I was curious as to what my own reaction would be. Is...
Sorry it didn't work out OTH but I'm happy for you. For one you recognize the beauty of what you had and even more so that you can realize it...
You may or may not have lost a friend but not because of what you are but because of his reaction to the truth; something out of your control. You...
21zephyr Everyone has given you great advice here; Just wanted to say a man in my support group came out and divorced his wife in his 70's! One...
Jake, My situation mirrors yours exactly: love my wife, we are perfect for each other, great friendship with her with an awesome family. But like...
What is the purpose of the group? Meeting in the nude seems a bit bizarre. Seems out of place if its a support group. I've attended a gay/bi and...
Awesome!!!
I hope all is well. I remember that feeling. So exciting and overwhelming.
It doesn't matter how much you think about how it will go you can't plan enough. I disclosed about 6 months ago and she is still very shocked and...
A sincere determination of you're true self is the first step. Right now you are all over the place. " To be everywhere is to be nowhere", Seneca...
Hey Used2bdc, with a wonderful wife and house full of teens and more I totally relate to your plight. For me I got to a point where I couldn't...
I understand where you're coming from. Before I came out to my wife I decided I needed to start taking care of me and not just everyone else. I...
Wishing you the best!! Sounds like a blessing in disguise wake-up call and appreciation for all.
I really agree with lostboy 87; you'll know when you're ready. No need to rush things but just weigh out all the possibilities. Take a look at...
Just when I think how tough my spot is I see how hard you've struggled to pick yourself up and live the life you want; inspiring. Seems to me you...
For those out later in life in the "I didn't cheat" (meaning physically having sex with same sex) category. I wonder the following: Did you ever...
Hey Josh, My life mirrors yours almost exactly. Age, kids, marriage years, wonderful wife but the sexual relationship ended long ago; all very...
