Hi, Does the label really matter? And even if you labeled what you are into sexually do you have to tell the whole world? I've always felt that...
Re: Given up trying to being gay Hi, It seems like you've made your decision. You should give at least a passing acknowledgement to whoever your...
hi, What difference does it make? You love the guy enough to enter into a committed relationship with him. Unless of course you want to be able to...
Hi, I have to agree with Sach. I lived in a time when being "queer" was a curse. I like many other gay men married and had a family. I actually...
There are reports of straight guys who inexplicably fall in love with another guy who has reciprocal feelings. For both, those feelings extend...
Hi, Depression is caused by different things but I suspect that futility is the cause of yours. I say that because you have been seeing...
Hi, Depression is caused by different things but I suspect that futility is the cause of yours. I say that because you have been seeing therapists...
Re: Given up trying to being gay "I refuse the break away from my family. I am not being physically abused by them. They are not my enemies. They...
You're welcome Hallertau. You are now on the right road, communication is open, you will be talking to the therapist and most important of all...
What specifically is your "brain" telling you that makes you believe you are gay? If you are gay you wouldn't be wretching at thoughts of being...
Re: Given up trying to being gay What you want to do is what gay men almost necessarily did in the last century. I grew up in a climate where you...
Why waste time worrying about the age of a potential partner or sexual encounter. I see a lot of talk on this thread about age and physical...
I am a gay man who made the choice you want to make back in 1969 when I married a woman. I had been in therapy for 4 years before I proposed. We...
Glad to hear your third conversation went well. I was worried about you yesterday, not so much today because I think you are ready to begin to...
If you want to save your relationship communication not second guessing is what you two need. If you want to know exactly what she's thinking ask,...
Hi Hallertau, I am an older gay man who was in a heterosexual marriage for 23 years and had 3 children in that marriage. Before we were engaged...
