My partner said she was wondering what was going on right before I told her. After I had come out to myself, I was much more affectionate with her...
Hi Adray. Definitely appreciate the advice and personally don't find it TMI at all. I must admit I'm probably as hesitant as my partner is,...
Can relate as well...just sending more *hugs* your way.
Hi Nickw. I'm impressed at how both you and your wife have approached this. It sounds like you took it head on but sensibly at the same time. I...
Hi Johndeere. I can relate, even if it's a different set of circumstances for me. Spent 8 years of my twenties alone, and sometimes regret that I...
Hi hrc! Thanks for responding. Yes, this definitely resonates with me. And it seems like the attraction can vary from month to month, or even day...
Hi DAFriend. Thanks, that's a great idea. Definitely think some kind of smooth transition like that might help her, as opposed to doing something...
Hi all. I brought this up in a couple posts, but I came out as bisexual to my opposite sex partner last winter. It was good to get it out, and we...
Thanks again for Cubbie for starting this thread, and for everyone contributing their stories. After months of putting the subject of my...
Thanks for bringing up this topic, Cubbie. I came out to my partner of 16 years (may as well be married) last December. 45 at the time, I was very...
Hi Mystic. Without knowing further details, my immediate feeling was that you should wait before telling her anything. She is married, so telling...
Yes, also in my 40's and also had never had crushes on men, but came upon the realization and subsequent panic that at least a significant portion...
Can't look inside your brain, but it sounds like you are bisexual. It's not uncommon to be into men one day and then women the next. Or the...
Hi ColoradoRyan - I can totally relate...in fact came out even later than you! My partner has been super-amazing in understanding, and I also have...
And that is a huge issue. By going out and having sex without her knowledge or consent, your partners become her partners, and she has absolutely...
Rachael1954 that reminds me of a question I keep asking myself when I encounter myself resisting my own sexual identity: Why is it I am so...
I've noticed my emotions have been a bit loopy the past month since coming out to my partner, but have decided that's not necessarily a bad thing....
Thanks again for all your thoughts...really means a lot to hear them! My introverted self will do its best to respond in kind. :) Gomez, that's...
Sounds like when you include him in the conversation, it becomes a bit too real, and maybe makes him insecure about the future of your...
Thanks for all the wonderful responses! Really helps to hear all your thoughts and feelings! Whoknows, my immediate response was to say that...
