Ryuji, good job putting yourself out there! There are bound to be many poor dates, some neutral (civil without chemistry), and a few good ones....
@Ryuji35 I know.. I think I also fell into a trap of 'being attracted to bad boys,' 'opposites attract,' etc. It's true that differences in...
He was physically and sexually my type ... and my first boyfriend (I'm 27.. very late in this game.. while he was very experienced). I became head...
You have to be 100% sure that you won't have kids and you won't change your mind, as irreversbility is the main concern for tubal ligation. Also,...
When did the break up happen? I was on the same boat as you recently. Had a breakup about a month ago. This friend started emotionally approaching...
The above post just came with a small implosion that I had.. I regret posting it now because it doesn't represent a fifth of my current...
I'm not going to pretend like I'm emotionally stable at this moment because this break up left me devastated.. Never had this issue before with...
Been almost 5 weeks since the breakup. I am okay for the most of the afternoon, but I still have nightmares with him in it, wake up at 3am and...
It's been 3 weeks since a horrible breakup with a dishonest, selfish guy. Objectively, he was someone who I should have avoided like a fire, but I...
My ex was different in that he didn't have much desire. It felt like he did not really want anything to do with me (evidenced by him rarely...
You are 100% correct. We hung out today but I felt strongly that I didn't want to use him as a rebound even though he said he was okay with that....
Not sure if this is too fast.. But the friend told me he still had feelings for me. Although I set boundaries back then for my crappy bf, there is...
Oh and almostblue, my parents are Catholic and conservative. They gave up trying to change me "back" to straight, but they want fewer people to...
A turn happened. I just reconnected with my friend I made a few months ago. We haven't spoken in a month to avoid emotional entanglement. but I'm...
You guys are amazing. You have all the words I needed to hear/read.. I don't know if you can imagine how much this thread has helped me so far....
What I forgot to mention was during our final encounter, I demanded an explanation to his lying. He told me he didn't want to spend time with me....
Also, I have 0 sex drive, don't feel like drinking alcohol.. Just eating dinner with friends.. chatting and meeting people on app just to talk and...
I thought I was doing better but I ended up reliving the event multiple times throughout my sleepless night. Just how aggressive and cold he was...
Finally got 8 hours of sleep. But woke up twice in the middle and had trouble falling asleep. The stage "bargaining" began.. A lot of what if's....