Google the book, "Sacred Vows, Sacred Cows." I think it might help give you some clarity regarding the guilt that comes with a breakup. It helps...
I'm sorry. I think I missed something here. WHAT exactly might you be leaving? You could be gone for days and he wouldn't even notice. You and him...
A friend of mine who probably was the LAST person who I thought might be gay, has come out. I can't explain how great this has made me feel. Maybe...
Is it wrong? Oh maybe. It IS lying. And lying to those who care about you can be very hurtful. BUT even though its 2016, coming out can still be...
I've been trying to figure that out for quite a while. Everyone says to live in the moment, don't worry about tomorrow, etc etc. Easier said than...
The short answer to your final question? Definite YES. And why is that? I have no idea. I guess we need just need to accept ourselves for who we...
You are a wonderful human being who did so much for so many. How sad you had to carry such a heavy burden of keeping a secret throughout your...
If any relationship forces you to act differently than how you would act if you were not in the relationship (except cheating and that sort of...
If you could take a pill every morning that would remove any self-doubt about who you are: gay, bi, lesbian, whatever, would you take it? Its...
This morning when I did a little manscaping and felt really good about myself and how I looked. Not sure which is better. Building my self-esteem....
I think the word "re-union" implies that there was once a "union." Except for one or two people, I had no real union, no real connection with...
Its ALL good.
Good luck Shauna!
Tremendous piece. I can relate to so much of it. I cannot offer any words of wisdom. But what I can tell you is that it is good you are aware of...
I am so happy for you afgirl!
I decided today would be a good day to take a break from all the stress, self-doubt and relationship issues that can weigh us down and focus on...
I totally believe it depends on your partner and how much of the focus is on pleasing YOU during sex. Now, when you masturbate, the entire focus...
I believe yours is one of the best if not THE best accounts of a lifetime of denial, confusion and finally, realization and self acceptance - a...
You just might be becoming more sexual, discovering things about yourself you never would imagine existed. But it also sounds like you are very...