Thank you so much! That is super helpful & so kind & empathetic <3 You have turned self-acceptance into an art; please keep being the artist that...
I want to come out *today*, but I am terrified. I don't think I am going to change my mind, & I don't think this is a phase, & it hurts me to...
Oh my, that is a heavy load to bear. :[ I am not a doctor or a psychologist so I cannot give you any professional opinion, however I am a...
Oh my goodness, thank you for taking the time to write that all out! I like what you said about fitting everywhere, yet no where. Also. This....
Thanks, Wolfgang! How beautiful that your Grandmother played this role in your journey :]
What a wonderful answer! Thank you for taking the time to construct it. I am feeling you on the "social construct" thing! A lot of the...
Have you tried binding?
YOU ARE NOT CHEATING. You are who you are, regardless of who you are attracted to. Gender identity & orientation are two entirely different...
I feel this; especially the part about feeling more feminine when half-asleep. The times that I feel most like a woman are fleeting & short-lived,...
How did you know that you weren't just a gender non-conforming cis person? People think I must just be a butch lesbian, but that doesn't feel...
The same thing happened to me. Once I realized I needed to bind to feel comfortable, I couldn't *stand* not being flat. I made a binder & used...
thank you, lovelies!
I feel you! It took me a minute to get mine, but I love it now that I found it :]
I know what you mean, Olivia! I have a few names that I adore, but most of them would be perceived as too specifically gendered for me to feel...
Re: EC's Christmas Matchmaking 2015 - Now Open! Gender Identity: Nonbinary / transmasculine Desired Gender Identity of Match: Nonbinary /...
Thanks Cody! Hopefully your friends see what a Cody you really are & catch the correct habit soon ^.^
That is all both informative & encouraging! It's comforting to know I am not alone in choosing a name quickly but not disclosing it quickly
How long did it take you to find your new name? How long after that until you asked others to use it? Did you change it legally? How long did...
I was raised stiflingly Christian, but have discarded that & have been practicing Paganism for some years now