Re -- the thought that Trump picked Pence so he wouldn't be impeached is interesting. However, for many in the party, Pence is immensely...
She has had two days to digest this news. And she has a new baby and two other children. Your expectations of her are likely not reasonable....
You are incredibly eager to date, move on, etc. I hope you have made an appointment for individual counseling. Ending a long relationship,...
The living out of a van is just an analogy of course. I realized that it seems premature to bring up future partners, but I work in family law...
Can you move back to where she has the support she will need? Could you find employment there? One way to show that you care about her and your...
Even if she isn't ready to date (and I am sure she likely isn't), you ought to plan to give her extra help with the kids, houeswork, etc and make...
If you tell her about the infidelity as you are exiting the marriage, you are adding layers of pain. Do you want to do that? If you are planning...
Is divorce your plan? If so, there is no reason to burden her with your cheating. When people do this, as they are exiting a marriage or...
Looks really good. Meeting Format approximately 2 hrs Welcome, announcements(if any), possibly tea/coffee/cookies – 15 min. Sharing – 45...
It is a step. Have you figured out if she is getting any support from women/men in similar situations? I really think that would help her some....
I think you both need to slow the dating down. You each need to start healing from all that has just happened or you could each make some really...
Any mention of adoption will further the feelings of abandonment that your children likely suffer from now. You need family counseling and a lot...
Then maybe this isn't the best plan. I think you need a workable plan in case your wife really does fall apart. This doesn't sound like it is...
I am thrilled that you have a plan to move forward with finding appropriate long term care for your daughter. Once a care situation is located,...
I think that's right. This forum is pretty unique. Surviving infidelity has similar guidelines, moderation, and rulesbut doesn't sound like it...
I am not sure that exists -- as this is a subforum on a much larger forum that deals with a multitude of issues -- thus the need for subforums....
google straight spouse open forum and you should find it.... but unless you are sharing this site with her, you need to promise never to look at...
Some you won't have a choice -- child support is state mandated. Divorce often leads to a decline in all parties standard of living. TX doesn't...
I too am curious if your wife said "divorce" and you said no, what were your expectations if you stay married?
Gently, given your daughter's disabilities, it is unlikely your wife will have much time for dating, etc, unless you equally share the burden (at...