Re: Gay anal topping with condom - HIV risk from shit stained lube on bottom bit of d I wouldn't worry at all, you have essentially zero risk....
Wow, I wish all spouses were as calm and understanding. I'm quite jealous.
You had such strong and unique feelings for this man. Now imagine if you had similar feelings for someone else but instead you were free to pursue...
I have lived this guilt, to a certain extent I still am although I am trying to feel it more as remorse now. I have bent over backwards to cater...
Totally agree, feel free to chat to the prospects extensively, some may not bother with the talking but so what. You might find someone who is...
I too am trying to visualize this... seriously, there are more important things to worry about. If you were to get sick (unlikely) you'll feel bad...
You are taking another guy's sexual organ inside your mouth, it's a very personal activity, not far off kissing really. Doing this requires a...
I really hope so... I have some hard things left to do, but I'm going to just put my head down and plow through them and then I should be in a...
Thanks SiennaFire, sage advice as always.
I have never said to her "If you truly loved me you would do X" because it's a logical fallacy and it's not my style anyway. She has said it to me...
Thank you all for your responses. I really needed to vent. I know she needs time, and I am trying to keep my distance to give her time to heal and...
My soon to be ex-wife is being particularly horrible right now. In the past I have suggested to her that she should find a friend, someone she can...
I've been told by people I am out to that I my mannerisms have become more "gay". When I first came out people were shocked because they said I...
Everything Soundofmusic said. I went through what you are going through. I was so depressed about missing out on my gay youth, I felt I was past...
Personally I think the answer is in this post... you "get attitude from the wife"? What is that? You can't have a personal hobby? I am sorry, but...
This really resonates with me... I think my wife is a little stronger than yours but she still struggles, she acts like nothing will ever be good...
Good for you!! Wish mine was as calm as yours. On the BJ thing, well we are all disgusting, depraved, sex addicts don't you know? I am tempted to...
I think you should be honest with your GF about feeling a little insecure about her spending time with her ex. Let her know it's not a trust thing...
Sounds like your doc is looking after you and you have put things in perspective which has lessened your anxiety. Now is the time to stop...
Gay social events are good, but perhaps you should try looking for a friend. A gay friend. Create a profile on a dating app or site explaining...
