Hey all, Long story short...I was married 23 years, came out and now seperated from husband. Yay me! I live in a small town and can only meet...
Thank you so much Rachael...your response brought tears to my eyes...you are right on, I do have to start really connecting to what is going on...
Thank you all so much for your kind responses. Knowing I am not all alone does really help. My husband is hurting and I know I am the cause, but...
Hello all, I have posted a few times, my situation in a nutshell...realized I am lesbian through therapy, told husband....he didn't believe me,...
I believe for me growing up being sexually abused from a very young age, I never had a chance to figure out my sexuality as it was defined for me...
Thank you all for your thoughts and encouragement. Really- I think that is a good idea I will check out the site and find something that will...
Thank you all for responses. Patagonia-You are right this is exactly how are relationship has been, just awkward "special occasian" sex. So...
Well I finally talked to my husband, and I came out? I think, but I am not sure it is coming out when he says he doesn't think it is true and I...
Thank you so much for that post. I, like many others, can relate. I have a goal to come out to my husband on Saturday... but I keep trying to...
Way to go!! I also have a plan to wait until after the holidays to tell my husband. It is great to hear that the world doesn't end when you come...
Thank you everyone! I appreciate your words of congrats! I could not have started this process without reading all the brave stories here. We...
So I need to tell my husband that I am a lesbian, no one knows this except my therapist. But after reading what others wrote, I learned that I...
You have described my life exactly. I am in therapy and that really helps, but telling my husband and starting the road to ending the marriage...
Way to go!!
I think I would tell people in my life who would be the most supportive first, so maybe your parents? I also have to tell my husband, but I wish I...
I am so sorry you are going through this. It is an emotional roller-coaster. Stay strong and true to yourself.
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Thank you for sharing that! I do have a worry that once I am out there I won't be accepted because of my late arrival.
Thanks for the reply spirals! I have never given my husband any indication of any crushes I have had, I think it is going to have to be a big, I...
I love what you wrote angeluscrazy that is exactly it, isn'the it? We have nothing to apologize for and we do not need to justify who we are.