It's super contextual, for me! I use the neutral "guys" a lot (as in, I will address an entirely female group of friends as "oh my god you...
Gently, I'll stress that I was open to being informed that I might be answering a different question to the one posed because of literalism. It...
I mean, that definitely sounds like Gender Stuff is going on to me. I relate heavily, if I'm honest, to shifting between, "This isn't exactly it...
I guess for me I don't really know how to draw a concrete line around these things, nor feel it's possible to quantify it. What I mean is, some...
I absolutely think sexual orientation is capable of being fluid. Not for everyone, certainly. I don't think it undermines the validity of people's...
Exactly. And realistically, I don't think I'd not like a flat chest. I can't see how I'd miss a feature I've been going out of my way to keep out...
It sounds like she doesn't understand that gender doesn't equal adherence to a gender role. Is it transphobic? Yeah, like at a fundamental level...
Oh, that article! It's good. I wish I could resonate, but I think gender stuff gets muddied up pretty heavily when you're also neurodivergent, as...
Thank you both for your perspectives, I really appreciate it. <3 It's reassuring to hear experiences that aren't extremely Classic Trans...
As someone who has used many labels - some broad, some oddly specific - in their time, I'll lend my two cents! While I personally prefer to keep...
So, weird question. I'll start out with some context. My gender is Big Shrug. I've never hated my body, and still don't. Puberty was just a, "Oh,...
This is a really late reply, but I definitely recommend talking to a gender therapist if you can - having someone I can talk through all this...
I relate to this so much - on the one hand, I definitely started life as a 'little girl' insofar as I took no objections to being raised and...
One of the big reasons I've started thinking about pursuing low-dose testosterone is this exact thing! Despite the fact I definitely did, I've...
I'm a brit, and associate the word with posh and snobby rich folks (usually guys). I've never heard it used as a slur against gay or generically...
My friend pool has probably a 6-1 ratio of gay to straight people. The Gay Clumping Factor is in full force - mysteriously, even the friends I...
Hi there Chinaski! I've been binding on and off for...quite a while now (several years!), so hopefully I'll be able to answer your questions....
Mine is relatively self-explanatory: I'm a habitual wearer of odd socks. (I say habitual...it's mainly laziness! Pairing socks together?...
Kind of a moderately big victory - after about half a year of angsting over being 'stuck with' my given name because I couldn't find anything that...
I saw this the other day when Micah first shared it on their blog, and it resonated with me so much in a lot of ways. While sure, I do enjoy...
