I love stories like that. Coming out can be fun when the situation is right. I was talking to 2 girls at work about my weight watchers meetings....
Congratulations. This all gets easy with time. The more times you tell people, the easier it will get. Hopefully the responses you get will all...
I'm not really sure that I can answer this. When I was married, I was able to have sex, but I found myself having to picture being with a man in...
Stay strong. My wife had a similar reaction and it took us both a couple of weeks to calm down. After that, we were able to start discussing how...
Congrats! I'm very happy to see your parish leaders stand behind you. I'm also catholic and I was working with the RCIA program to educate...
Do it when you are ready. If he outs you to others then there's nothing you can do. Once he has the information, it's his to do with as he...
I'm glad that things are working out. Being honest and coming out to your wife was probably the best thing you could do. Remaining friends will...
I was where you are at about 3 years ago. I moved out and then got the courage up to tell my parents and my sister. I got both of my parents on...
My personal opinion is that you've got enough to deal with regarding coming out that you shouldn't date. I think you run the risk of adding...
I've been out and separated for over 3 years now and to me, it's definitely worth it. The first holidays are rough in that you have to start your...
Definitely for me. Mostly because I can really acknowledge, accept, and even act on my feelings now!
Congrats. Yes it will take time for them to process it, but things will get better.
A couple of things that she may want to hear is that everything you've said and done was real. When you said you loved her, it was real and you...
Welcome. I'm one of the guys who came out in my early 40's. It wasn't easy, but I'm glad I did. My old posts are around here, as well as those...
I'm so happy to hear where the two of you are at. It's also great that you are feeling better about coming out to your wife. As you've...
Today is the start of the healing process for both of you. It sucks but it will get better with time. Just do your best to survive the roller...
I'm not sure who said they'd never go back either, but I know I wouldn't. I have less stress in my life now because I don't waste energy trying...
That's exactly how I felt when I first came here. I felt like I was pushing myself out of the closet. 9 months later, I was out to about...
Keynote? Bring a pillow. I'll put you to sleep! Glad you've found inspiration among us formerly married guys. This place helped me get to...
Many of us who were married didn't lie. We just didn't know. When I got married, I had feelings for guys, but I didn't understand them. Plus we...