Same as OGS. I had a few "flings" if you want to call them that before I came out, but couldn't start dating until I was out. I came out to a...
I'm realizing I did everything ass backwards lol. But we live and learn right. I've been feeling better each day, more of the old me (less...
We all support him and I've read his posts. I understand he's in a really crappy dark place right now. Honestly it's feeding his fears,...
Wow. Really? I'm so glad I came out at 35.... One. I did my clubbing and crap as a straight guy. Why would I want to have a twenty year old...
I'm just at the point where I'm fine with everyone knowing. And I think that's my next step towards accepting being who I am. I've got a huge...
Thanks folks. I'm thinking maybe in between now. Not too short, but not an essay either. There's some things I need to get out that I just...
Exactiy. Something like the tree that doesn't bend breaks. You can't change the past, but you can choose to accept it and change your future....
So I've read a few things about coming out being akin to the five stages of grief. Denial-Anger-Bargaining-Depression-Acceptance. I've been...
Dude, step away from that ledge. I was there and it is so not worth it. Here's some tough love that I just had to swallow. STOP looking for...
Thanks all. I know I shouldn't have gotten into a relationship, really I need gay friends. I messaged the guy I dated and sort of gave him an...
So, like the title says. How did you get away from all the repression you've built up for years. It just feels like I have this wall built up...
Same here. I tried coming out and forming a relationship at the same time. Which was so dumb as I've got too much emotional baggage to sort...
Well, he just broke up with me. But in a way I'm ok with it. I think I do need to work on myself a bit more, and maybe jumping right into dating...
Amen! I came out in one fell swoop pretty much. I decided one day to just go for it with my best friend. She's been an amazing support. Then I...
Thanks for the recommendation on the book. Maybe it's something I'll look into, but right now I think it'll just put extra worries into my head...
Thanks everyone. I wouldn't go so far as to call him a boyfriend as of yet, but it's good when I'm with him. I know a lot of this is in my head,...
I meant to change that to gay! I might be still a bit confused, and I definitely have an emotional connection with this guy. And I've actually...
Hey everyone. Been a while since I posted on here. I've been dating an awesome guy for about a month and a half now. It has been awesome! We...
Second date set! Seriously this is almost too good to be true.
It went great. There was a definite click. We will see if there's a 2nd!
