Patrick there is so much in your post. I am a 55 year old male - Background from me: Grew up with an alcoholic father who was abusive to...
my 5 cents worth bro i totally get here you are at, it must have been a shock for you! Its really evident that your love your grandparents and...
My 5 cents, i think that the church came up with the view of that a person is gay because they were abused or even because there was no father...
A book called 'The Confidence Gap' by Dr Russ Harris might be helpful to navigate your way through dealing with regrets
I once heard that it was it was said that life is the result of attitudes and choices, and that attitudes and choices depend on beliefs and...
Lol yep this is me. Thank you
Update: I have been reflecting on this situation and read what I wrote, I would say that there is a strong possibility, that I have a problem...
I am going to try and keep this brief and to the point. This is really embarrassing and I am not proud of myself. I was at a new job site and was...
Definitely going to read this. Yeah i know, its hard to gauge a reply when we don't witness everything, re:big picture. I guess also I have tried...
So I am going to take a different stance on this. If you feel like punching a wall or a mirror then maybe you need to find someone to punch like a...
could be in finding an activity that you like doing and then looking for a group of people who enjoy that same activity. Gay groups - walking,...
You have what I call a "Player" in your net. You opened up emotionally to him and he is playing safe. For a time he may say all the right words...
Got me thinking... hmmm I like guys who are tall (I am 6'7") slim to athletic build good posture, smile, mischievous grin, mature yet can play...
When I was younger at school it was Scott Baio from Happy Days
Firstly we all ramble lol its cool. You can't avoid another person being hurt and feeling miserable its life. Be honest (be truthful) sooner...
Some very good advice being offered already As this can be difficult to talk to our friends about a personal and sensitive subject such as "Are...
Wow!! OMG!! Yeah this is tricky. I would go out for drinks with this guy and play it cool. Let him show his hand (as if you were playing cards) or...
Sienna Fire - thank you for sharing this, I so relate to this. Thanks CharacterStudy yes he is very passive.
Andrew knows how I feel about this whole scenario and I have said to him that I have had enough and actually want to end this relationship and I...
I guess I am acting childish. It has taken me some time to realise this. Andrew is my first actual relationship (gay or straight) and it's "trust...
