Because right now, I'm not. I think I'm starting to get past the depression and revenge-seeking thoughts that I had while trying to process...
I think this about covers it. While my company does have an anti-discrimination policy that covers LGBT people, I'm not naive; a great many...
Not in an illegal way, of course :-) I just want to practice my sexuality all the damn time. I want to talk about what I feel toward other...
How do you do it...? I've been told that I need to do it, and I've read online that it's important after coming out late. But how do you do...
Or at least just not care anymore? I want to go out and talk to other men, to flirt, to laugh, to get to know them, to make friends, all that....
Kind of a funny title, I know--but hear me out. After you came out (assuming you did), did other parts of your life improve? Like your work? I...
Strange as this may sound, right now, that's exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks. :)
Thanks for your feedback. Personally, I don't like the idea of thinking of my life as a journey, even though I know that lots of people like that...
So I found a new gay self-help book the other day, and I've just about finished reading it. One thing it talks about is how to "grow up" into an...
Thanks for your responses. On reflection, I think that I still respond to my gay-ness the same way I did back when I first realized I was...
In this instance, I'm focusing on LGBT-related, closet-related, bad memories. Like many of you here, I have some really bad memories of being in...
I'm not really sure what I expected to happen. Sometimes, I get really bored. Well, a lot of the time. And my job is... unpleasant. Not that I...
After you came out (assuming you did), did you notice that your priorities changed? Before I came out, my priorities were, in order: (1) making...
While of course I don't know 100% how you're feeling, I used to be really worried about my looks, too. Eventually, I realized it wasn't my looks...
Seems like a pertinent question for the group. As mentioned before, and like many of you here, I forewent my youth to try to survive as a...
So I've finally come out a fair bit, and I've started to enjoy, really enjoy, the company of supportive people. People with whom I have things in...
You can see why it's a challenge to cast a wider net :)
First, thank you for your response. I do have a small handful of gay friends, though I did not meet them online. Never know, though, maybe...
While I'm not 44, I can sympathize, and I have thoughts like this just about every day. Rightly or wrongly, if I'm going to hate something, I...
So as I've mentioned a number of times on here before, there are no LGBT meetups or organizations within hundreds of miles of where I live. (I...