Its interesting to here about this, although from my experience like I mentioned I have two different types within one gender - how do you explain...
Many Asexuals still have romantic attraction without sexual attraction - so if you can have one without the other, I'm sure you can have both and...
has anyone else got a response to coming out that is positive but with slight dictation to who you should date E.g. -Its great your gay, we...
I've never come across this - but have to assume in the wonderful rainbow universe - Straight guys who are attracted to butch woman - and I mean...
Sorry this is just me being curious and a question I wondered but never asked the right people... So theres gender realignment surgery... and i...
I would if I was attracted to you/my type - for me its more about having the image of a man/boyishness masculinity than whats between the legs!...
I'm a gay guy but if I met a ftm gay trans guy I was attracted to ...the fact he looks like a man/is masculine is far more important that whats...
Oh I agree with you that it is problematic that the OP feels he needs a white bf to improve his life, and that he wishes to whiten himself etc...
I think that sometimes sex addiction is the wrong word - and sometimes it should be more like ' sex-misalignment'....... Addiction makes it...
I agree with much of this, but I don't think its that easy to change attractions, Speaking from my own experience - I'm in my 30's and I have a...
Although we're not born to have preferences like you describe.... i would add that they are fairly ingrained, and although possible - still very...
do you have fantasies or kinks that arouse you? are you on anti-depressant? sometimes medication can effect people in strange ways when it comes...
So this happens quite often with me - I love the theatre and often find myself fancying at least one member of the male cast. I get the programme,...
I can see how submitting to someone shorter/smaller than you could be hot... as it would be more about compliance than physical strength....saying...
The great think about being an adult is you get to choose the parts of childhood you loved and wish to continue... But you brain will never be the...
My attractions are separate too - but instead of it being the two genders - I'm both romantically AND sexually attracted to males BUT I'm...
I think Celibacy by choice and belief is quite a tough call and surely your suppressing something - it doesn't seem heathy! me on the the other...
I'm Gay and Celibate but not as a choice, its more a feeling that I don't want to pursue partnered sex. I deal with my own sexual urges very...
neither! I have no desire to be dominated or to dominate! I prefer more equal sensual stuff
i Found it useful to write down everything you want in a relationship, and separately what you don't want/like, and see which is longest? or which...
