Being in the closet for such a long I also found that I was careful about how affectionate and especially cuddly I was around other guys.
I've only very recently started telling people. The response has almost all been "so what"
Thanks Patrick for the really kind welcome and reply. Much appreciated.
Hi, Firstly I am really glad that I found empty closets as it feels a really safe place! I am from Solihull, married for nearly 20 years and...