PLEASE learn from my mistake & figure out a plan of where you will be going & how you're going to make ends meet before you have the conversation...
You are me a year ago! The former serial dater, the five year relationship with a man, engaged, terribly unsatisfied & depressed. Without going...
The problem is my parents don't want to meet her. Like I brought up the idea of us all getting together beforehand for dinner or coffee & they...
I'm freaking out a little bit & needing some support here. Basically, one of my best friends who I've been super close with since we were...
The big debate/questions: If you don't immediately find someone physically attractive is that a deal breaker for you, or do you place a person's...
We all have our preferences, no shame there. Definitely doesn't make you less of a lesbian, maybe more, it shows how much you appreciate...
I live right near you in Edmond, so I feel you! The atmosphere around here isn't exactly the most accepting, but little pockets of...
You sound a lot like me when I dated men. My relationships were a matter of pros & cons, checklists, & logic. Whether or not I chose to be with...
As a fellow Okie from the backwoods (I grew up just outside of Guthrie, so yeeeah), let me say that I feel you. People from other parts of the...
As the one who's typically on the other side of this equation- the woman dating multiple people, which sometimes ends up upsetting some of those...
I think the thing that helped me deal with my self-consciousness was just coming to a place of acceptance that people will stare. And going out &...
It is selfish in a way. But if you're not selfish sometimes you're just going to be miserable. Also being raised Catholic, I get that you...
This is the normal way of doing things, right? I'm usually seeing a couple of different people at the same time & always assume that they assume...
You remind me a lot of me a year ago, except 2 years in the future if I hadn't left my ex. I can't say what the right decision is for you, but I...
DON'T DO IT!!!!! If you have any doubt in your mind that it may not be a good idea, listen to that little voice. I've personally never heard of a...
I'm having a bit of a personal debate with this at the moment, so I was wondering where other people are at: what you do for work, your out-ness...
While I can't sympathize with being 50+, I already feel you on the professional femme dilemma. I'm actually quite the outdoorswoman, but most...
I was engaged to a man, realized I was attracted to women, got the permission to experiment, & once I did realized I wasn't actually into my...
I did, although I'm currently back to questioning it (apparently my commitment issues extend to my sexual orientation). I never even considered...
Thanks for the replies ya'll. (&&&) I still have no idea what I'm going to end up doing about this guy. I just keep thinking maybe if I get to...