thank you. that helped to hear <3
i was never really a man though, since i came out at 14. i don't know anything about how men live. i always wanted to be a girl so i think that...
thank you. it helps quell the cacophony of self-loathing and isolation to hear that, even if i'm not sure i'll ever feel good about my life or...
i think i'm more screaming than anything at this point. my ideas when it comes to trans stuff tend to devolve into that. but even if they don't...
when i was a street kid, the cis lesbians were a lot nicer to girls like me than the gay guys were, at least around here. i feel like the gay guys...
i don't know. i changed a lot between 18 and 21. my shoulders are about 1 1/2 times the width of my hips and i have a big barrel chest and even...
i came out when i was 14 but i didn't start on hormones until i was 21 so my body's pretty wrecked, actually. the only reason i can maintain...
it just feels like, who am i to call myself female if most women don't see me that way? what do i have to back up that claim besides a desperate...
it's difficult when most women don't see me as one of them. i don't even have a name for my sexuality because the community that word is for...
so i'm planning on getting srs one day and while i'd prefer a fake vagina to what's attached to me now, i'm finding things very depressing....
I think you got to the rub of it. People will leave me if I tell them down the line, but even knowing it's probably doomed to fail at least this...
I used to have it in my profile but then no one ever messaged me or responded to me. I don't think I'm being insufficiently up front when people...
Revealed it during messages before the first date after we were hitting it off and were about to schedule something and true to form she "just...
Thanks everyone. It just feels hopeless. I'm not going to be able to afford bottom surgery in the foreseeable future so this is just going to keep...
Another date ran out on me after I told her I was trans. This was our third date and we were hitting it off really well and we complimented each...
Not for nothing but this is more than a little condescending if you're not trans and you're telling it to trans women, many of whom have been...
i kinda feel that it's a slur more directly targeted at trans women than anyone else. not to say that it doesn't hurt trans men or trans nonbinary...
I'm not passing and I've been on hormones for 4 years and while I'm miserable and wish I was cis female every minute of every day, I don't regret...
(Cw for violence, sexual assault mention) in high school it was pretty much the usual "beat up the f-slur/t-slur" stuff idk i don't remember it...
Thank you, everyone. Sorry for the late response, I kind of pulled into myself for a few weeks and didn't go anywhere, canceled things with...
