My girlfriend has been stressed recently for various reasons and has voiced feeling a bit unsure of the relationship, and then came to the...
Y You poor thing. I feel so much for you. Have you ever thought of therapy - is that something you might be able to do privately? Therapists...
Well, in that case, I think that you have suffered a lot but I think you may be underestimating her own suffering. I think it’s very likely that...
Outside of the nature of your relationship with her - I.e put that to one side for the moment - did she lack transparency/ honesty with you in...
Thank you for your kindness. I very much appreciate you taking the time to give those responses.
Did she have a history of not being transparent prior to your disclosure? If not, I may have a slightly take on things.
Quite early on in my relationship with my girlfriend, she said that my hand gestures when talking made her nervous that I was going to hit her...
Thanks for your very helpful and generous reply. As my father ignores the issue altogether unless prompted, I’m not sure what my boundary with him...
I came out to my father 1.5 years ago. The reaction was not good. He said he was disappointed, had no interest in meeting any future partners, but...
I am dating others but I really like him (although some of it may be the chase). I just want to be fair to him and to me also. Maybe it is a form...
For those of you who have dated first timers...how do you know the difference between them being fearful or just not interested/stringing you...
Hello! For those of you who remember what your first time being with someone of the same sex was like, do you have any tips for what I can do to...
Hi Michelle, I'm late to this post but it caught my attention. I haven't done this but someone did it to me. I felt they deeply cared about me (I...
My ex broke down in front of me recently about a variety of issues (none related to me and not a scenario I could have really avoided unless I was...
I suppose a more general variation of the question is whether any good can ever come of a bad / complicated start?
I don’t think you should feel alone in this. I feel it and most people who are not in the lgbt community feel it. Because it’s human. That said. I...
That’s helpful thank you. On reflection, may be that I am prevaricating out of concern I will be rejected because (a) they are not interested or...
Thanks all
Ex would say no / freak out / contact friend so although I see the value of it in principle don’t think it would work in reality...
Do you prefer someone to gently / indirectly ask you out or someone who just goes for it - tell you they are attracted and would like to go out...
