Thanks Fallingdown7, Blossom85 and stocking. The more I talk with others the more clarity I get. And yes, the polyamory thing is a bit of a...
Fallingdown7, I was thinking about what you said… Would most lesbians not want to date me because I'm in a relationship (polyamorous) or because...
Thanks everyone. I understand Fallingdown7…I really REALLY want/need friends who understand liking women-that's most of it…but you know…if...
Ok, I am still way in the closet…if anyone knows, they know I am bi-ish and poly, and married to a man. Someone told me a long time ago that...
Hi EvolvingMe, Same boat, a bit older than you and no kids…And I love the term "gay adolescence" because this does feel THAT awkward…but VERY...
It's interesting, what's going on in my head these days… Close friends have known for a long time that my husband and I are polyamorous, and some...
Yep. Did what parents and society expected. I never knew there was any other box but the one I was brought up in. It took me three marriages and...
Missy, I know the feeling. I have moved in the last 3 years and where I live now I have no friends. Some family several hours away, but what I...
PS, Just fair warning on the L Word, I'm just into season 3 and season 2 did have some real triggers…REAL triggers…not all pleasant…But…maybe...
I don't think it's dysfunctional to think she reminds you of a "you" that's further along the path…maybe she's who you need in your life to grow!...
Hi Everyone! Thanks for the welcome. It's nice to find people who "Get" what I'm going through…Nice forum! I kind of lose things though…like I...
Oooh, I hear ya! I blocked my crush via every avenue possible but would still unblock her to look at her photo once in a while, and the one time I...
I have to agree with Chip, but Swimgood I hope it goes well…Dysfunction IS hard to define, but here's one of my warning signs…If you see as you...
But then again…there's a lot to be said for older women as friends/mentors…maybe lovers…new tricks are always a bonus…so yeah, pros and cons!
Don't a lot of cities have a resource house or groups for LGBT? But yeah, in ANY town, what's an option to a bar? And, what on earth do women...
Yeah, I'd say the age gap might be a problem…I dated a few people that were older and the music was the biggest gap…and different hobbies…But then...
I hope that wasn't offensive Stella99-I just think about my first marriage-how I did every single thing that my parents expected of me and now I...
Thanks for the compliment Ishtar. Ditto the on-line thing too, oh I've had some awful experiences. Mostly I think people think they can hide...
I hear what you're saying…. But, there's always the option to spend sometime alone. It's really GOOD to have periods in your life with no...
Hi Ishtar (and everyone), Oooh, Yeah, I belong in this boat! I'm older than you, have been married three times. First one I did everything a...
