I really hate feeling angry. It’s the worst part of grief. It hurts a lot. Feeling all of it helps us process the truth though to get where we...
It truly is heartbreaking. It was the hardest thing I have ever done, leaving my husband. And petrifying. And truth be told, your wife might not...
I understand this totally. I miss my exhusband a lot sometimes. And being alone is something that I definitely need and yet is also a lot of work...
I think gay corresponds just fine to my human being. And I'm a real human being. I'm very proud to be gay. But I get that you are saying it's way...
Labels are important for the marginalized because then they can unite and support each other. And March when necessary. Political purposes. It...
I wept during that movie too. It was truly moving to me for a few reasons. I grew up during that time period and that music is important to me....
Those fearful thoughts were with me when I first left too. I don't believe you are rationalizing anything. This isn't a choice, these feelings. If...
She was really THE catalyst to opening my eyes to the truest and deepest parts of me. When I understood that I loved her I had to do it in a...
@globalgal Thanks so much. It's true. I don't want to give my power over. Very, very true. Life is short. And I would love to share the rest of it...
The truth is everything. It is what make relationships real and intimate. Without it, I'm unsure what kind of a relationship that is. She should...
Perhaps because it's not fully and authentically how you want to express yourself. But that kind of sex can happen with someone who you are...
What has been truly hard for me and what you hopefully won't have to go through, is that I kept hanging on because she would drop bread crumbs of...
I recently found this quote: "Don't hide love. If you feel it, express it...not to demand that others love you back, but simply to live outwardly...
I'm pretty sure the people "acting straight" are the very most transparently gay of all. Might as well embrace and love yourself just as you are....
I have yet to recover fully from it truthfully. I don't even want to say how many years it has been And she hasn't been good to me. Which is...
I think that is the problem with how we often grew up in this heteronormative and homophobic world. What does acting straight mean? What does it...
I believe the only thing that messes up a life is not telling the truth. Lies or omissions hold everyone hostage in a situation that isn't good or...
So happy for you in coming out! I remember when I first came out and people would say that to me... And I would think...happy for me?...this is...
This is such a “normal” part of the up and down process of this journey. A most painful part. It took me some years before I didn’t wish for an...
[ATTACH] Thank god for black people.
