Thanks Nickw- he had been through alot before he met me but i have helped him through every thing. He knows how much it upsets me but there is...
Reading this is making me sad. Happy for those that have found love but sad for myself i guess. I'm with my partner a long time now over 10...
I know, that's why I keep going back to check to see if he is ok. It is so upsetting to think that someone could feel so alone.
Has anyone had any update on this man. I think of him often and come back to check to see if he has posted. I hope he is ok.
Thanks Landgirl. I have explored alot of those issues but i'm shut down when i bring them up. Talking about my needs seems to cause arguments. I...
Thank's for all the replies. Much appreciated
Thank you happy girl lucky. You are 100% correct. I probably need to detach myself from all of this hurt so i can see thing's clearer. He tells...
Thanks for all the replies. I should have added the relationship has been this way since the start. I am not an ugly women by any means. I've...
Plus I forgot to add. I never touch his member and he doesn't like blowjobs. I'm sorry if its too much information it's just i feel like i'm...
Hello, I hope noone mind me posting this. I am wondering whether my husband is a closet gay. The thing is we've been together 10 years but the...
Well intimate feelings are not really shared. Its like hes distant from me. Everytime i bring it up it turns into an argument. I just can't...
Thank you cycling fan but can i ask what you mean by previous behaviour etc? Sorry my mind is so confused and a bit slow this evening.:sleep:
Thanks everyone for your input i really appreciate your replies. Today i was fixing a bedroom in the upstairs of our house and he came up from...
Thank you pete, its just i don't feel there is any intimacy despite my protestations and arguments. I will try to keep my head up but to be...
The fact that he won't kiss or touch me makes me feel disgusting. i am a pretty woman but my days now are filled with self hatred. If kissing me...
Thanks for your reply. yes he is an awful homophobe to be honest. I'm just so tired of looking for a simple kiss or nice lovemaking and i never...
Thanks for all your replies but there is no affection at all hardly. I mean no kissing, no cuddling, and sex rarely and its mechanical. i feel...
Thank you for reply being earnest. The thing is i have mentioned couples counseling and he refuses point blank so thats not an option. The other...
Hi everyone great to find this site. I am married for the last 8 years but throughout this time on and off there is something about my...
