I am in a very similar situation to you... I don't know if I can offer any advice as I'm right in the middle of it, but at least you know there's...
I agree that you don't HAVE to have experience in order to know... I basically knew all along that I was gay but was in a lot of denial due to...
Sounds to me like he could really be into it... I mean he's had a 3some with you before... it could be something spicy in your marriage! If you...
There seem to be a lot of people on this thread who, like me, are making this all happen at 30-31... For me turning 30 gave me a bit of a mid-life...
Thought I was bi and that marriage (and straight sex) would "fix" me...feelings for men have gotten stronger ever since and now that I have been...
Hey Benway, how are things? Would love an update.
There's always the chance that he's getting it elsewhere and so doesn't "need it" from you. This would also certainly cause him to be distant...
Hi Highlander, It has taken me some time but I have read through every post in this thread and I want to tell you how encouraging and helpful it...
Thank you BeingEarnest, very well said. This is just how I feel. I have begun to bounce back less than I did at first... Pretty convinced that I...
It was quite emotional for me... It was something that I had fantasised about for so many years... I basically felt like I was losing my virginity...
Here's another perspective that might help: I've been married for 11 years and have only this year accepted the fact that I am gay. One of the...
Thank you so much for sharing your story so far. I have not come out to my wife yet and need to wait at least a few months for a circumstance to...
Multiple sexuality disorder... I can definitely see that being a real thing (though you don't hear about it). I think sexuality is one aspect of a...
My theory is that suppressed things end up coming out in violent explosions... the longer something is suppressed, the more dramatic it is when it...
That is good to hear. I just had to check and make sure you were alright. I know you've got some issues and problems, but try not to focus on...
Do you ever think about hurting yourself mate?
Oh dear, well there is obviously more than just a sexual identity issue going on here. You know that. You are lacking in self-esteem, confidence,...
Interesting... I find the idea of a gay bar more intimidating than using an app--maybe I'm just awkward socially and prefer to set things up in...
I understand the fear/desire combination. For me the struggle has been my marriage: how could I even consider doing anything with a man (or anyone...
I would ask the same question that I'm still asking myself today: If a hot man and a hot woman in swimmers were coming toward me at the beach,...
