Yeah, I'd say come out to your family first. It would be more personal, and they won't be offended when you come out on facebook to everybody...
scar
I don't have a problem with it. Actually, I often refer to boyfriends as "partners", so it doesn't sound like I'm broadcasting the fact that I'm gay.
zeal
Next time you go to the dentist just ask them to whiten you teeth. I've had it done, it works quite well (My dentist usually puts some sort of...