Good points @Nickw. Ideally I would like to stop the chat rooms altogether. I keep trying and I end up stopping for 2 weeks then relapse. You’re...
Thanks @Nickw and @Unsure77. I’m going to try to briefly explain why I feel so bad about having SSA. It’s not so much the SSAs themselves that...
It is too late for this. I am already married. You’re right I do have the choice to not act on the SSA via chat rooms etc but this is easier said...
That is true and while it is not too difficult to not act out on the SSAs physically, it is difficult to not act out online because of the ease of...
Yes that is true @Unsure77. I have never physically done anything physical with a man. However, I visit gay chat rooms sometimes, which is a form...
Thanks @Unsure77. I still like being married to my wife. She’s a great person and I love her dearly. I just wish the sexual side of our...
The only small thing I wish I could change is to not have the SSA in the first place! That’s impossible. I wish I could stop visiting gay chat...
Thanks for saying that. I was worried people would dismiss me and say that I’m ‘living a lie’. I’m glad nobody has said that. I also believe that...
@Nickw I absolutely cannot share this with my wife. I don’t want to either. It is totally inappropriate in our culture so this is not an option....
@Peterpangirl - I know my situation and telling my wife (or any of my family for that matter) would be disastrous. I was very unhappy about this...
@Unsure77 thanks for taking the time to advise me. I have looked at this website. I’m sorry but this is totally not me! I’m not LGBT affirming,...
@justaguyinsf there used to be online support groups for muslims but they have vanished. We cannot be open about this at all because Islam is a...
@Unsure77 I get your point, but in our culture we do not label people with SSA as gay, bi etc as you do. I am a man suffering and struggling with...
I disagree that the scriptures don’t really forbid homosexuality. However, I’m not here to debate about this. Most people who experience SSA...
@Unsure77. I am actually Muslim not christian - a religion far less tolerant to homosexuality than Christianity. The therapist I went to was...
@sevn and Quebec. Thanks for your support. It is helpful posting, at least that’s something. I don’t believe that there is any evidence that...
I posted about this 2 years ago.. Nearly 2 years later and I still have the same problem. No offence to you all but same gender attraction sucks....
You don’t have to like being gay. Most people probably don’t either (although they won’t admit it). Being gay is very difficult, which is why we...
@SevnButton: i think you've done really well. I hope I could achieve similar what you have done. It sounds like you have developed a solid family...
Thanks. As you say everyone is different. I know my situation and trust me it would not help anyone if I told her my problem. This is something I...
