Hi, and welcome to the world of positive confusion :) Personally I think that having a couple of thoughts or exploring alternatives during...
I've got to agree with hunter8 - there are lots of reasons why individuals get hooked into porn that doesn't match their orientation. Lots of...
Hi Josh, I feel for you and for your wife and family. Your path ahead may be tough for a while but there will be joy and relief in moments of...
Hi Bippity, I feel for you. The sticking point for you is the 6 year relationship. This is not just some boyfriend who is recent and with whom you...
What is the big fuss? I was circumsized as a baby and am perfectly happy with the way I am. Of course I'm intrigued to know what it would feel...
It seems clear that you love each other but that something is in need of attention in your relationship. Joe Kort ( a qualified psychologist) has...
Hi, good on you for asking questions. Lots of supportive people on here have and are asking questions too. It sounds to me like sex is your go to...
Thanks for sharing these details about fantasies. How fantasies work is something that has always puzzled and troubled me. Some people seem to...
Hey Aussie Lefty, I'm sure you'll meet someone one day - put yourself out there if its what you want. I think masturbation does change when...
Hi, it does sound like your stress is a problem for you. It is pretty common to use masturbation as a 'self medication' for stress and anxiety....
Hey Wolfen, feelings of anxiety and not being able to have an erection or conversely of cumin too soon are a part of any new sexual encounter if...
Hi, putting aside the gay/straight issue for a moment (if only we could sometimes!), the even bigger issue is building a relationship on trust and...
I'm no doctor, but forgetting stuff is a red flag. Was she, by any chance, intoxicated? Or just really angry?
He has certainly crossed some boundaries with his behaviour! What you describe would make me personally uncomfortable but I probably wouldn't want...
Wow, your responses are very loving and giving. The advice you have received is very encouraging too. As Aldrick is saying - you do need to think...
Hi, being a christian doesn't automatically make anyone perfect! Your mum seems to have lots of conservative ideas that aren't either charitable...
I guess you're talking about a law change in the USA? We've had gay marriage here for some time and, guess what, society has not collapsed. I...
Hi, yes, the AA-style 12 step programmes for addiction are out there. Zychik doesn't think they are suitable for sex addiction though. He has...
Hey, welcome to EC. Maybe she really is tired and not in the mood! What can you do to make more time, ease the burden so she's not tired? Get...
