The second paragraph sounds like an echo of what my wife says!! Thank you Bearheart and Dionysius for your words of encouragement. I had read...
It’s been over 9 months since I came out to my wife as gay. I’m still quite amazed that I actually did it. I never want to go through that...
Hi, It has been three months since I came out to my wife. Needless to say it has been a roller coaster. I've seen her go through all the stages of...
I am trying to be as accommodating as I can because I know we can be very good friends and when she actually is in a good mood i know for that to...
I think I know what you mean. I guess it stems from her being emotionally dependent on me to a huge extent. But you are right I can't control her...
Thank you for your words of support. I am trying very hard to be there for my wife and manage to do so 9/10 times. Sometimes the tears seem to...
These words/thoughts could have come straight from my wife’s mouth. Thank you for you reply. It really helped a lot to read and reread it over the...
Borrowing a word from another language might be an option. My son calls me “Baba” and any kids I might have/adopt with a future partner would...
These past few days have been a roller coaster. She has gone through the stages of grief over and over. We have both cried out eyes out. Her tears...
Thank you for you replies. I have read them over and over again these past few days. @Contented: Thanks for what you posted. It helped a lot...
Today is day two. Yesterday was a very hard day fort both of us. I saw her go through multiple stages of grief back and forth. We both cried a...
@Biguy45: I think its been almost 4 years since I started this journey. a little less than a year since I have been procrastinating. I know its...
She’s still asleep. I am glad she’s getting some rest and not awake and pacing in a panic as I would have expected her to. She said she was very...
I finally came out to my wife a few hours ago. I’m glad I had written it all down as a reply to a letter she had written me a few months ago. My...
Thank you all for your replies. @NoName87: Eventhough I would much rather not be outed to my family or her family at this very moment but if...
In the letter/notes I have written, as an outline for my conversation, I have not included any details of why or how I know I am gay, or how hard...
Hi, It’s been about two and a half months since I last posted. I still have not been able to come out to her. Even though I am ready to come out...
Thank you very much for your replies. I could not talk to her over the weekend as we had some impromptu guests and didn't get time to ourselves...
Hi! I have been posting on this forum off and on. I tend to block it out and not log in at times probably because I don't want to deal with the...
Thank you for the advice OnTheHighway. I will start by doing that.
