Hi all I havent posted on here since last August. Since then I have come out, left my family home and moved into rented apartment. And became a...
Hi - yes Im dating at that age right now. Its hard work yes..Im doing a lot of it on line using apps like ****** and ******. Finding there are a...
Hi all - I have posted on and off for the last couple of years, having come out to my wife. Things have settled down with her now - less raw, less...
A Belated Happy New Year too you Highlander2. Your advice before Xmas about backing off was good advice. I am more distant with this guy and have...
Hey all - I have posted at various stages in my coming out journey. Need some practical advice - where does a gay man in his 50s meet other guys...
Hi Highlander2 - following in your footsteps? Since I posted and you replied - have had contact with this guy. He says he feels he cannot leave...
Congrats from me. The life you are making for yourself is the kind of life I want too...
Hi - me again. I have been literally on the point of moving out. It was only this week that he and I were looking at possible places we could into...
Hi- thank for the post.much appreciated.this has been a first gay relationship and to see it end like this is so disappointing. I really thought...
Hi Highlander - have been re-reading some of your posts. The thing that happened to you with that guy when you were moving out? - well the same...
I am somewhere between bjd400 and Highlander 2. I have been seeing a guy for 3 years now and am open about it with my wife - I still live at home....
Hello bjd400 - my story is that my wife found out by accident 3 years ago - which I do not recommend. It would have been much better at least for...
Hello gzman02 - I recognise what you are saying. I am in a similar boat and still wrestle with this. What am I losing and what will I gain? In a...
Thanks all for your posts. Just seen this guy - it was nice but I still have the feeling that he is losing interest. Ironic because I have felt...
Havent posted for a while but been readng others' posts. Quick recap - came out to wife a few years ago and met a guy in the meantime. Still...
Hi Horizon55 - I recognise the feeling of blind panic and anxiety only too well. My age and family situation are similar. I went through the...
Hi OGS - your post made me think. Yes - there is a lot of day-to-day unconscious proclaiming going on by straight people as you describe. What has...
Yes - agree about coming out being a choice..rather than something one feels one should or must do because its of great importance that others...
Agree - dont want to hide it; dont want to proclaim it either and wouldnt expect my straight friends to proclaim their straightness either....
Would like to know if other people sometimes feel the way I do about being gay. As individuals do we make too much of it with friends and...
