If it won’t go away and it’s bothering you mentally then I think it needs further exploration. From my experience, these thoughts / feelings do...
Hi guys, Well.... I’m back!! I think it was 5-6 years ago when I first came across this website and I used it extensively for help and support....
Hi, I was in a similar position (although married for 7-8 years) and decided to leave my wife (I’m a man) about 6 years ago. It was an incredibly...
Hi Bluenote... I've not been on here for quite a while and yours is the 1st message I've read. The fact that you've been together 30 years is...
Hi there.... although I have 'suspicions' that I'm gay, I certainly don't identify as gay. I have huge amounts of internalised homophobia which I...
Hi there.... just a few comments on this. When I 'came out' to certain family and friends, I used the term 'not straight'. Since then... I don't...
Hi Eveline, I totally feel your pain... you will get through this and things WILL GET BETTER. Although you may not be able to see a way, one does...
Wow Mellie, what an inspiring story! I can relate to leaving the family home behind and moving into an apartment. 2 years on.... and my...
Great post wandering mind. Purple socks eh? I'm gonna get some :)
Hi soulstone, I've read a few of your posts and can relate. I moved out from my wife and baby boy about 2 years ago. Throughout my aduly life I've...
Re: Another question - do bi people secretly( or openly) prefer one gender to another Hi soulstone.... I just tried to send to you message but...
Fantastic post mellie!! Beautifully written and I can certain relate! Stepping out into the unknown is a daunting prospect but once done, we give...
That's a great saying 'looking for me'.... Can't put the tooth paste back in the tube!! I viewed it more like dropping a load of bombs... Some...
Wow brilliant, well done. I guess you'd planned to have the chat after Christmas because you didn't want it to upset/ruin Christmas. It's not...
Wow that was really powerful to listen to! Thanks for posting x
Hi soulstone... Have you 'tested the water' with women? Do you have strong desires to be with a woman? Have you talked to your husband about...
Interesting... Although we've not set a date as such, I'm expecting divorce proceeding to start next year. I'm hoping most of the grief / anger /...
Hello there, I feel for you and your wife! Having been through this situation (and with a 6 month old baby at the time) I can really relate to...
Hi guys, Wow this is interesting and very relevant to me. For many many years I had a 'something is not right' feeling with my relationships and...
Hmmmm tricky one! Are things 'amicable' with husband? I'm gonna aim to enjoy the days off, spend time on the beach, find time to reflect, be kind...
