You can't control what others are going to think. What you can do is behave in the manner that you believe is appropriate. That's all we can ever...
I would say that being bisexual is a bit more complicated in that you have a foot in both the gay and straight worlds, but that's about it. Some...
The terms are just short hand; perhaps not 100% accurate in all situations for all people, but close enough. The thing is, would you want to go...
Yes, that is what happens and it was never really the case. It involves the relationships you build, who you look to for support, how you align...
You're taking my words and morphing them with yours. I said experience allows you to say with certainty that you are what you think you are. In...
You jumped to some conclusions in what you said. I said nothing about anyone being pressured to do anything. If there is any pressure for preople,...
To quote Rachel Maddow: "No one can insult you by telling you what you just told them."
I didn't say "can't". What I said was know with complete certainty. Those are two very different things. From my observation, without experience I...
No, it isn't about forcing anything. If you're comfortable with where you are, that's OK. However, there may come a time when you need to know...
True. You will know a lot, but as I said, it won't be with 100% certainty. It's like the 80/20 concept. You can get 80% of the way there with 20%...
I can't actually think of a specific turning point at the moment. I think it was more a matter of enough time for the reality to sink in... DeeAnn
I have somewhat of a disagreement with that. I think experience will prevent having to revisit the question in the future. How we think of...
Sexuality is a pretty complicated concept and it isn't This or That. It is a spectrum and everyone falls on that spectrum, somewhere. Many years...
I think intellectualizing will only take you so far. Beyond that, what's left is experience. There is no substitute for it. Intellectualizing can...
Unfortunately we use the word Normal in a lot of ways that we shouldn't. If you exclude the technically oriented definitions, such as...
Do you have any by Katherine V. Forrest?
On thing about Passing is that when we reach a point where we've done all that can reasonably be done, where ever that falls for each of us, we...
Sorting out ones sexuality is not the work of a minute. I think too many try to rush the process, and it is a process. What we feel in the heat of...
R~E: It does sound like you have some gender-related issues. However, I think a professional is needed to really begin to get a handle on things...
y: I agree with having the discussion in person if at all possible. Even with live conversations over the phone or texting, there is much about...
