Glad you are feeling better. I can relate to the "hardest thing you've ever done" part. The court process -although I was lucky and had a...
Met my gf at church. :) (Gay-friendly, New Thought church)
My daughter's dad is gay and he told her when she was 8 or 9. It was never an issue at school. Sometimes she told people, sometimes not. She was...
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
I love your update! Thank you for sharing it. I need to hear the good things happening to all of you. It helps me get through.
Ugh. Not cool. I hear ya on the paranoid thing though- well, the wondering, I think is what I would call it. Had one of my back car lights smashed...
Dragonbait, Love it. Don't worry, there are no lightning bolts coming. At least not in my view. As my name implies, spirituality is very...
Hey drs, I am in the same boat- have signed my papers, waiting on prove up date. Then it'll be final. Sometimes wish EC was a real place, so when...
Rose, I hear ya. I won't have the name change, keeping my married name- but I get it. Have been a stay at home mom for the past decade (ahh,...
Yes. It is perfect. Thank you.
Penny dreadful- I am inspired by your courage. So many of us here, including myself, are struggling to be true to ourselves and have the courage...
I agree with other posters that this is something only you can answer. I can give you my take, from my perspective though. Take it with a grain...
My gf is older than me as well. When it's right it's just right and nothing else matters. I am with everyone else- see where a friendship goes,...
Beautiful post, Dragonbait. Reading it felt like...wait for it....wait for it....BAM!! My reaction to your a-ha! was that I too, classic...
drs, you and I are twinsies, pretty much. In the process of divorcing my husband and we plan to stay living together for as long as possible....
Love it! Beautiful. Thank you, Dragonbait.
This was a big fear of mine as well. My mom reacted horribly when I was 16 and again at 21. I had no intention, really, of playing this one AGAIN....
Love this. I second the "losing weight without trying when you came out" thing. This happened to me as well. I also had a lot of anxiety just...
When I came out to my husband - it absolutely changed how I felt. I use to joke that "I just said 'I'm gay' too many times and that's what did...
MaybeJory, Just wanted to jump in with some support. Traveling this road as well, and have had similar thoughts - "maybe I can make this work"...