I have the same impression as Tightrope. Sounds to me like the guy is very conficted about his own sexuality. I have never acted remotely like...
Last questions first: there's the "straight spouse network." And to some extent PFLAG. As to the rest, I find it hard to be very optimistic...
I agree with everything you say. Labels can do more harm than good. And in a perfect world, none of this would matter; we could follow our desires...
Re: straight , bi or gay ? a question which is consuming my brain and destroying my l Your experience is not all that unusual. There are many men...
I'll just second what tightrope said. So much depends on your particular circumstances. But on what point, I'll offer a definitive answer: yes, in...
The fact of being attracted to both men and women can be very confusing. I feel that the term "bisexual" sometimes adds to the confusion because...
This is an interesting question. I have been mulling related topics. My situation has felt like two steps forward, one step back; or maybe...
How to meet people when you're just trying to sort stuff out can be a serious challenge. Are you in or near a big city or college campus? There...
I don't agree with the point about a built-in bias. I very much wanted to believe I was heterosexual, but when I stopped trying to force the issue...
Don't worry about labels. They are of no real importance. You say you could imagine being in a relationship with a guy, but what would that...
Congratulations. Coming out to yourself is the hardest part. Once you've let go of the outdated self-image, it gets easier just to speak the truth.
None of these things is scientific. I wouldn't rely on it as definitive.
Well, it's a fantasy, but what kind of fantasy? Fantasies don't come out of thin air.
You are infatuated with an image. That's not unusual, but it's not a lot to go on either.
I didn't use the term "fully gay." As I say, there are some very complicated feelings about women here. I think it would be extremely helpful for...
Completely normal. You're acknowledging aspects of yourself you previously may not have known about or had to keep at a distance.
I was responding to comments such as these: "I have probably been more, if not exclusively, romantically attracted to women. I have never been...
Well, I'd say it's not just a matter of moving on with your life. It's also possible that you unconsciously found it unacceptable to be attracted...
You can be straight and feel some attraction to others of the same sex. And you can be gay and feel some attraction to members of the opposite...
Yes, I think you're on the right track. It's all about acceptance now.
